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Old 07-14-2011, 07:37 PM   #1
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Help Girlfriend saying she's pregnant

Last week my Girlfriend came over and we "Hooked Up" if you get what I mean but we didn't have sex or anything of the sort. Now she's saying that she took a pregnancy test and I was positive. This is the second time that she has said this and to be perfectly honest Im sick of it. I want to leave her but what if she is Pregnant and she says to her parents that its mine when it isn't... I know that its illegal to have sex at my age Im 14 if you were wondering. What should I do? Please Help
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Old 07-14-2011, 07:50 PM   #2
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Re: Help Girlfriend saying she's pregnant

She has a positive test after one week? First of all, if you didn't have sex (and that includes petting and stuff, because then it's also possible that sperm gets to her vag) it's not very likely that she's pregnant. And second: I once took a pregnancy test too, and so I know that you have to wait a few weeks or until your next period until you really can be sure about its result.
I don't want to say she's a liar, but most girls tend to become very nervous when they even just think of becoming pregnant - it's been the same with me. So if I was you I would wait for two more weeks or so, then ask her to take a new test. Or ask her to go to her gynecologist, they can tell and also know what to do if she's really pregnant.
And of course it's possible that she feels that you don't want her anymore and now uses this ''pregnancy'' to keep you by her side. I hope she's not like that, but it's possible. So really, keep calm and wait a bit for what will happen next.

If she is pregnant and says it's your baby though you know she's lying you can just ask for a paternity test. So everyone will know that you aren't the father and you'll be fine.
But I guess it's best to talk to her about all of that and find out what she thinks and maybe plans.
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Old 07-14-2011, 08:02 PM   #3
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Re: Help Girlfriend saying she's pregnant

Thank you this puts my mind at ease il post any news I get im hoping that she's just attention seeking.
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Old 07-14-2011, 08:18 PM   #4
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Re: Help Girlfriend saying she's pregnant

1. calm down
2. it's not illegal to have sex at your age
3. she's not pregnant if you didn't have sex (at least she's not pregnant with you)
4, if she lies and cheats then yes, better to leave her.
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Old 07-14-2011, 08:22 PM   #5
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Re: Help Girlfriend saying she's pregnant

I am thinking about leaving her because i think she could be cheating thanks to everyone that helped
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Re: Help Girlfriend saying she's pregnant

LOL it's not illegal to have sex at 14.. Unless she's like 18 (which I doubt, by the sound of her maturity).
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Re: Help Girlfriend saying she's pregnant

Also, if you want to call her bluff while still giving a show of support, you could see if there's a women's health clinic or something near where you live. They often give free pregnancy tests, so you could say you just want to be sure and go with her to the clinic.
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Re: Help Girlfriend saying she's pregnant

No sexytime = No pregent with your child

tell her to shut up as she is lyign if she says its ures.
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Re: Help Girlfriend saying she's pregnant

Get her to do another pregnancy test and show it to you whilst she's around you. If she really is pregnant and you have never had sex with her then she may be cheating....

Also, where are you from? Legality of sex changes from place to place people. Where I live it is illegal to have sex below the age of 16.
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Re: Help Girlfriend saying she's pregnant

I think that you are totally in the right to be frustrated by your girlfriend's actions.

First oh all, as mentioned, having a pregnancy test show positive a week after conception is impossible. It fankly cannot happen. Even tests at doctor's offices take longer than that.

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If your girlfriend has used pregnancy as a means to gain attention or somehow to keep you around, that is a serious issue, and not one that you need to accept. Whether or not you two are having sex, she really needs to figure out a way to not keep stringing you along in this manner.

If she genuinely thinks that she does keep getting pregnant, then she really needs to look into a better method of birth control (I'm on The Pill, and love that, but there are a ton of other methods of birth control available). It's not fair to herself or to you to continually put you both in this position. It's emotionally and physically draining to have pregnancy scare after pregnancy scare.

If she isn't being honest about this, then that's not something I'd recommend dealing with. She would obviously have some sort of issue with attention that is well beyond what you should be expected to deal with.

Honestly, I wouldn't even bother to stick around "just in case" she is pregnant (because I doubt she is). I wouldn't worry about any legal recourse (although you both are likely under the age of consent, I have not heard of a case of prosecution due to underage sex when neither partner is of the age of consent).

You need to do what's right for you. And, to me, it sounds like this girl is not right for you.
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Re: Help Girlfriend saying she's pregnant

lol I told you so!. but after all if just one week then there no way take atleast 3-4 week to know if she pregnant so i think she just trying scare you or maybe she just love u too much dont want u to leave her or maybe... she want your attention what have u done! spend more time and care for her l
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Re: Help Girlfriend saying she's pregnant

I think you both need to relax a little bit before worrying if she is pregnant. It doesn't seem like you guys even did enough to have to worry about a pregnancy. If she is pregnant, you are going to need to wait for the baby to be born before getting a paternity test. But it will be essential to get a paternity test.
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