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Ok so i know this guy. And he is Bi, and hes admited to me that he is bisexual. But he says that he wants to be known as Straight. I dont understand why people are so afraid to show their true self. If your friends dont like you for who you are then they arnt true friends! Am i right? Cause i came out about being bi about a year ago and ive met new friends but also lost some too. So the friends i lost were never true friends to begin with. Does anyone agree??
Yes i agree!
Maybe hes just afraid of being judged by it. I am kinda the same. I will not say im straight at all, but im often scared of what people will know about me being bisexual. He just needs time.
Very true. Genuine friends will accept you not dump you.
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"when you don't think about something, it comes to you, whereas thinking when you're going to get it only seems to make you wait longer":/
Because despite what people say, everyone cares what other people think. He may have told you because he knew you wouldn't judge him, but everyone else in the world isn't the same way. Give him time and when he's ready, he'll know.
Maybe hes not comfortable with his sexuaility yet. I'm the same way. Im bisexual, I love my boyfriend (and think hes fucking hot) yet im attracted to girls, more so sometimes. Im very afraid of letting my self go and yanno.. allowing myself to be me, instead i try to keep a straight profile..
it takes a while for some people ... give them time
maybe be just wants the bi sex life... none of the labels and tags that come with it? I dont see why he should have to tell people that he is bi, its really none of their business.
i was the same when i first told anyone i was bi, i wanted it kept on the down low. then eventually more and more people found out and they asked me and i would just tell them i was.
he needs time to know who he is. he needs to figure his own shit out. so just let him go as he wants.
yeah i guess your right, plus he's pretty popular soo i guess he wouldnt want to come out. But like u said he does want the Bi sex life. Cause he's always talking bout wating to have sex w/ a guy
yeah i guess your right, plus he's pretty popular soo i guess he wouldnt want to come out. But like u said he does want the Bi sex life. Cause he's always talking bout wating to have sex w/ a guy
Exactly. Im soo open minded but i find this an extremely hard subject to open up to.
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"when you don't think about something, it comes to you, whereas thinking when you're going to get it only seems to make you wait longer":/
Well, For most people its difficult to say Hey, im gay or hey, im bi. Its just many people think that because someone is gay they're different. Its NOT they're fault if they are. Its just many people are asses about it and many people dont admit it at school. Its not a big deal that he wants to be KNOWN as straight. Just let him do as he wants