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Old 12-28-2012, 10:17 PM   #1
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Question i like a guy but only want to flirt is it ok?

a boy i like but i do not want to lose virginity with him but i like flirting myself.
is it ok to wear no bra with my loose top and be a little risky with my clothes around him?
it feels nice when he looks up my skirt (lol) when we sit in his room for homework.
just like to flirt
my gf said its wrong but she never goes with boys anyway.
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Old 12-28-2012, 10:21 PM   #2
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Re: i like a guy but only want to flirt is it ok?

no it's not. guys don't like wasting our time, you either are in or you are out. if you are going to flirt we are going to assume you are down; especially if you are dressing like that (mother of god soo hot)
don't lead people on, we have better things to do. if you are going to do this atleast make it known that you are not interested in sex.
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no it's not. guys don't like wasting our time, you either are in or you are out. if you are going to flirt we are going to assume you are down; especially if you are dressing like that (mother of god soo hot)
don't lead people on, we have better things to do. if you are going to do this atleast make it known that you are not interested in sex.
when you say sex do you mean sex or?
because i think i will be ok if he does some things down my top or skirt, just not "it".
he has to have his door open his parents said.
but sometimes his mum is far away and on the phone so we can hear her and no the phone is not cordless
anyway its christmas holidays now so no homework sessions but he invited me for videogames later day

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Re: i like a guy but only want to flirt is it ok?

well as long as you guys are doing some stuff it should be ok. but guys being guys he will want to go all the way.

i thought at first you said you weren't going to even touch the guy. that would of been just plain mean
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well as long as you guys are doing some stuff it should be ok. but guys being guys he will want to go all the way.

i thought at first you said you weren't going to even touch the guy. that would of been just plain mean
i do not want my virginity to be taken but i think the less clothes i wear the more i feel like his hands are needed lol.
funny how our clothes can make our feelings happen
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Re: i like a guy but only want to flirt is it ok?

Go ahead and wear as little as you feel comfortable wearing. Then figure out what your limits are and ask him to respect those.
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i do not want my virginity to be taken but i think the less clothes i wear the more i feel like his hands are needed lol.
funny how our clothes can make our feelings happen
I like your style. but realize that the longer you put off sex with him... in time he will see you as just as cock-tease and just move on. so be prepared

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Go ahead and wear as little as you feel comfortable wearing. Then figure out what your limits are and ask him to respect those.
i wear a regular dress in front of my mum when i leave but i undo it before i get to his home so my clothes are smaller for him :0

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I like your style. but realize that the longer you put off sex with him... in time he will see you as just as cock-tease and just move on. so be prepared
thanks i love fashion!
what if we touch eachothers laps , is that still a c-tease?
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Re: i like a guy but only want to flirt is it ok?

thanks i love fashion!
what if we touch eachothers laps , is that still a c-tease?[/QUOTE]

that's flirting, so yes it is. its implying that you want what's down there.
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Re: i like a guy but only want to flirt is it ok?

If you're willing to get him off without going all the way (touching, licking, w/e) that's not cock teasing and it's probably still letting you keep your virginity, right?

If it becomes a real issue you can talk to him about anal.
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Re: i like a guy but only want to flirt is it ok?

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that's flirting, so yes it is. its implying that you want what's down there.
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If you're willing to get him off without going all the way (touching, licking, w/e) that's not cock teasing and it's probably still letting you keep your virginity, right?

If it becomes a real issue you can talk to him about anal.
yep keep fresh.

maybe :s
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Re: i like a guy but only want to flirt is it ok?

The main thing to take away is play safe and have fun. I'm sure he'll let you know what he wants. Remember to clearly tell him what your limits are and make sure he respects them.

It sounds like you're all set to have a great time.
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The main thing to take away is play safe and have fun. I'm sure he'll let you know what he wants. Remember to clearly tell him what your limits are and make sure he respects them.

It sounds like you're all set to have a great time.
thanks i will say my limits

yep because last year i never thought about boys much but this year when i am around boys i have symptoms like crazy :0
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Re: i like a guy but only want to flirt is it ok?

Dire has got the right of it. as long as you two are clear with what your intentions are it is all good. I just didn't want to have some poor guy be led on or you be emotionally distraught if he stops hanging out if he doesn't get what he is looking for.

play it safe and go for it!
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Dire has got the right of it. as long as you two are clear with what your intentions are it is all good. I just didn't want to have some poor guy be led on or you be emotionally distraught if he stops hanging out if he doesn't get what he is looking for.

play it safe and go for it!
your right i just realised i saw his pants have erections so i agree its best to be clear
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