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Old 01-31-2013, 02:13 AM   #1
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Question Do people still value foreplay?

I just watched a video discussing if foreplay was dead and if this generation considers foreplay to be a valuable part of the sexual experience.

It is an interesting question and one that I have not thought of. I remember that when I first started having sex with my girlfriend at the time, around the third session, I wanted the actual penetration to occur quicker. We would go through about five minutes of making out and then I would start to undress her and from there it progressed. After that, there really was no more foreplay. It was a few kisses then BAM! straight to sex.

If a couple is just starting out in a relationship (they mention this in the video), then foreplay may become boring because you know what the other person is going to do.

Does anyone have thoughts on this? If anyone on here is in a long time relationship, do you and your partner still have foreplay? If so, is it a main part of your sexual experience or do you just gloss over and go straight to the pounding?

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Old 01-31-2013, 02:59 AM   #2
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Re: Do people still value foreplay?

Basically anyone who doesn't value foreplay is probably really shit at sex.
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Old 01-31-2013, 03:48 AM   #3
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Re: Do people still value foreplay?

I'd personally have to say foreplay is the most important (and arguably the most fun) part of sex and usually lasts longer than the actual sex itself, at least for me (damn self control). I've been in this relationship for 7 months and don't go 3 days without having sex, and there's always a lot of foreplay, so in my case it's certainly not dead.
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Re: Do people still value foreplay?

I agree i beleive forplays not dead ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months and i love foreplay more being able to please a guy is what i love and he can please me at the end of the day anyone can stick something in a hole its the foreplay that makes u more attracted to each other and is such a tease for females so yer go foreplay !!
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Re: Do people still value foreplay?

I don't understand how anyone can just go straight into it. Foreplay builds up passion, attraction and most certainly raises the sensation throughout in my opinion.

I feel that jumping straight in would be... well, like something rushed and without meaning, or lacking value.
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Re: Do people still value foreplay?

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I'd personally have to say foreplay is the most important (and arguably the most fun) part of sex and usually lasts longer than the actual sex itself...
Yes it is. Foreplay arouses both partners and the physical connection involved is beneficial towards relationship.
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Re: Do people still value foreplay?

Foreplay is all we unfortunately can do, so with me it's not dead
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Re: Do people still value foreplay?

There are certainly many times that I want to get straight to sex. But keep in mind, foreplay can come in many forms: being at work all day thinking about how I'm going to get rammed by my partner when I get home - that's a type of foreplay. So while our sexual encounter may be "hi, what's up? Stick your cock in me." that doesn't mean that "foreplay is dead." Not to mention, there are some times that we don't have sex, that we will only stick to foreplay (as in, we don't penetrate, our sexual encounter will consist of just oral or manual sex).

But, I honestly could not care less what other people involve in their sex life. Foreplay or not, if they're happy and satisfied that's all that matters. It seems silly to feel the need to stick to some ritual (foreplay) for no reason other than we think we "should".
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Re: Do people still value foreplay?

I value it, that's sure
Guys tend to rush things and be impatient - it's easy for you you are ready when your penis is hard and you know 99% that you'll come during sex
For girls it's not liek that so be nice and give your girl an orgasm and then have intercourse - you'll cum, don't worry
And it's better with more foreplay
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Re: Do people still value foreplay?

I love foreplay sometimes more than the sex, there are sometimes when we can't get to the actual sex and just having some great foreplay can get me off
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Re: Do people still value foreplay?

Foreplay is definitely not dead. There are times I'm sure with most people when he just jump into bed and get straight down to business and as much as that is still great nothing beats taking your time to stimulate every part of the girls body and give it the attention that it deserves. And of course receiving the same in return! :-)
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Re: Do people still value foreplay?

A good pleasure of sex can only be experienced when both partner have orgasm together.
man gets on quickly and women take time,
foreplay stimulate the women to the verge when they become restless and beg for further advancement, thus both partners attain their orgasm together.
otherwise men will finish early leaving his partner mid way.
therefore foreplay is essntial part of sex.
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Re: Do people still value foreplay?

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A good pleasure of sex can only be experienced when both partner have orgasm together.
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otherwise men will finish early leaving his partner mid way.
What a stupid thing to say.
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I love foreplay sometimes more than the sex, there are sometimes when we can't get to the actual sex and just having some great foreplay can get me off

My sentiments exactly! Don't get me wrong, there are times when a quickie is just what you need but to me, the foreplay, the kissing, the touching, the teasing, the licking, sucking and nibbling...Maybe it's romantic Italian in me...but foreplay is the best!

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A good pleasure of sex can only be experienced when both partner have orgasm together.
man gets on quickly and women take time,
foreplay stimulate the women to the verge when they become restless and beg for further advancement, thus both partners attain their orgasm together.
otherwise men will finish early leaving his partner mid way.
therefore foreplay is essntial part of sex.


What?
1st no not true, orgasm doesn't have to happen in the same time
2n if one finishes before other he/she (usuall he) doesn't have to be selfish, instead he should satisfy a girl too
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