I've been dating a guy for 5 months. He's realy awesom, and we've only actualy had a few problems most caused by my paranoia that I would be abandoned (due to much past experiance and not just with love interests) but anywho we talked about having sex a while ago and are just getting everything in order (i've been on the pill for almost a week even my mom knows ect) we're gonna have very safe sex honestly. I've been learning how to put on a condom and i'm gonna teach him just incase he doesn't know how to do it right (we're both virgins) and yea he's a realy great guy.
our only big problem is that the pill is making me into a bitch with horible moodswings and such so we had a problem.

I was becomeing controling and clingy (more so than usual!!) and he was distancing himself and neglecting me. I knew it would become a vishious cycle if i let it last so I figured out how to tell him about it, and he agreed with me that this was happening and admited that telling me when i did something he dosen't like was hard for him but promised he would try. and i promiced to try to get my hormones under control. so this was today. my question is should we have sex in the near future. there was a problem but were working on it.. so im not sure.

It does happen when you are on the normal combination pill. Tell you doctor about it and he may be able to suggest an alternative. My girlfriend was prescribed triphasic pills which varies the hormone depending on periodic cycles and it keeps her in better moods without altering her sex drive. The dosage is very individual so you'd have to see a doctor to make you the correct one.

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