I'm sorry for putting my business out there like this but i need to resolve this issue. At the beginning of our relationship, my boyfriend and I had sex all the time. Everyday at least 2 times and everything was fine.

I had to get used to his size but i finally started to and didn't have any major problems. ( a little swelling here and there for a day after was it)

He "grew" even more .. but my problem started before that so i know that's not the reason. We have sex and I am so swollen afterwards that i can barely walk .. it takes days to have the swelling go down and it happens every time. I have sex then i can't for 3 -4 days after and it gets worse everytime. it's getting to the point where it hurts and it's so swollen i don't even want to do the one thing i love doing. I need a solution so if anyone can help me i'd really appreciate it.

Thanks,
Jane Do

maybe just take it easy 4 a while..........maybe more foreplay etc......

he might have torn something inside and its really heard for something to heal there with out movement to imagine with so my suggestion is go to the doctor or stop 4 about a month or so u got to make sacrifices sometimes

are you using a condom? maybe you are allergic to latex?

you should probably talk to a doctor about that since it seems like a pretty serious matter