Okay I'm planning to loose my virginity to my boyfriend of a year and a half. He's awesome... He's sweet and I'm not sure when I'm going to be able to see him the next time. I know to take our time and use protection, im really tight.. I've masturbated before and he's big enough for it to hurt. Whats the best sex position for loosing it? I heard on the girls back.... and this will probaly happen right after senior prom in about a week. thanks!


Sexually-Confused

aka. April

Hi honey,

well personally i think the best position would be missionary (just usaul him on top stuff)
When i did it for the first time it didn't hurt at all - just make sure you relax and your ready.
xx

Hey Doughnut..

Love your quote under your picture and your really pretty OKay thats what I want to happen, but he wants to be below me and im like no, that would feel like me in control and I don't want that. He won't force me lol. Defitnely won't. So I told him no lol. The only thing is, is that I'm still kind of iffy on the situation. I don't want to tell anyone afterwards and I'm afraid that I'm going to feel wicked guilty seeing im so close to my parents and some of my friends. I'm also afraid becuase im catholic and I don't want to go against that, plus I kind of promised my mom I would stay pure till im married. Im just still going to tell my friends im a virgin though... lying is the key sometimes, to protect your rep lol. Plus I dont have much school left, graduating the 11th of june lol

No he's a virgin too. I don't want to sound rude or anything, but I love my parents and they love me they want to protect me. I know I'll be fine seeing im in his hands, but still. I don't know... I just want to try it once and then again after im married to him and stuff...

That waiting til married stuff is stupid.

If YOU want to, and HE wants to and you love eachother do it.

You don't have sex based on your parents of "God"'s opinion.

I want to respect them too though.... I mean your supposed to respect your parents... they don't want me to..

yes you may love your parents but respectful parents will respect you are ready.
Besides its not down to them unless you're like 12.

I agree.
If you love the person, why not?
Just make sure that you're ready. Missionary position would be fine. That's how I lost mine. Just make sure he goes easy on you. It hurt for me though, but just relax. I'll be fine.

Then again, if you want to respect your parents, don't do it. If you feel that way.
Sex is just sex. Love is something else. If you choose to wait till marriage then so be it.


Best of luck.