Hi, I'm a 16 year old male, I live in England and am confused about my sexuality. I'm a fairly devout Christian, although I'm far from evangelical. I'd say that I'm at least decently good-looking.

Basically, I really want to be straight, get married, have children and live a happy and normal live with a wife and family.

I think that when first began to masturbate, i did so whilst watching straight porn, however somehow i got on to gay porn. All my family and friends think that I'm straight, (i know my friends don't think i'm gay because they're not afraid to call me gay as a joke). About 2 years ago, i forgot to clear out my search history and my mother noticed some gay porn things in there and when she spoke to me about it, she told me that she doesn't think I'm gay, and that my dad doesn't think I am either. I've always had fairly typical boy interests (planes, action games and films).

So, when i masturbate, i almost always think about gay acts usually involving other boys at my school. However, i also sometimes masturbate Whilst thinking about girls, but i don't do this too often, usually because i find it far easier and faster to ejaculate whilst thinking of gay things.

In my school, girls enter my year during the next year and there's two girls in particular in the years above me who are super hot, and sometimes i masturbate whilst thinking about them. I really want to get a girlfriend, but I'm still worried that I'm gay.

Overall, I'm wondering what you think about all this, and whether you would think i'm gay or not from this (ok, fine i posted this mostly because i want someone to tell me that i'm not gay, and why). Sorry about any bad spelling, grammar, punctuation or upper case letters mistakes, but it's quite late here and I'm using my phone.

Thanks for any help,

Maybe you're just curious about the opposite sex or something along those lines though. Are you attracted to males or do you only think about them while you masturbate?

When I see a male who's very good looking, i'll probably think 'wow he's good looking' (i don't look at or think about their ass etc when i see them) but i'll think the same thing about any girl that i see who's hot. Also, i rarely think about sexual acts with males except for when i masturbate. Also i do feel attracted to girls' tits etc, for example one day recently i walked into a building and one of the super sexy girls i mentioned was bending over facing away from me, and yeah...

I don't think you're gay.

It's possible your Bi.

Interested in both sex's.

i think physical action is required to be considered homosexual

see the same thing was going on with me when i was 16.
i was attracted to girls, but i found it easier to masturbate over gay porn/thoughts.
and i still do now. i have a girlfriend now tho, and i have been with guys in the past.
i just put it down to curiosity at first, then i just figured i was bi and decided to
try something with a guy. as fate would have it, i enjoyed it. lol

good luck mate.

If you were gay you would just know.
You may enjoy gay porn but its hardly reality is it? Its just something people do on pictures and place onto the net.
What you may enjoy over pictures, or through videos etc may actually just be amusement,rather than reality feelings. Im given the impression you are more straight, unless you feel for men in reality?

I'm not really sure what you mean by that, but I can't really imagine myself being gay. Also, I've never considered living a gay lifestyle, or being involved in anything like gay marriage, so I guess I see what you're saying, and agree with it.

Hmm... Go to redtube. If that works you're straight. Otherwise, you may be bisexual.

your bi curious until you've had sex with a guy and liked it, or done it with a few girls and guys and prefer guys.

ya i tink you are just bi-curious aswell, i find it easier thinking of girls sometimes ut i have done stuff with girls nd i didnt like it in reality.

If you can look in the mirror and imagine whatever is between your legs in your mouth...you may be gay

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