Sex- Um, Didnt really work.

lustandlovelost · 05-18-2008, 03:51 AM

Hey everyone :]

I think I definately need some help.

My boyfriend and I decided to have sex, it was a really big deal to us as it was both our first times, so anyways, we got round to it, but basically his penis just wouldnt go in, instead it would just slide away LOL. He was on top, and I think if i was on top it probably would of worked better but a couple of my friends told me that for your first time being on top hurts a lot more. soo. yeah. advice?

Vanack · 05-18-2008, 04:15 AM

I've heard this before.

Try lube, and don't forget a condom. < Suggestion

Position his penis yourself, to be more comfortable.

Kat · 05-18-2008, 04:36 AM

Maybe the hole currently isnt big enough with it being the first time

DjSmiff · 05-18-2008, 04:53 AM

you did do foreplay first didn't you?

***M+I+L+F*** · 05-18-2008, 05:11 AM

I found being on top for my first time felt more comfortable because you are controlling it, maybe you are just too tight, or you werent wet enough could be another possibility, maybe do more foreplay first...

twizzy · 05-18-2008, 05:11 AM

do i need to hop threw this computer screen and teach you how to have sex.
lol.

lustandlovelost · 05-18-2008, 12:50 PM

he had a condom on, yess we did do foreplay first but not alot.

hmm i think i might be too tight or something. eugh.

and LOL to twizzy.

DeLarge · 05-18-2008, 01:02 PM

Condom, lots and lots of foreplay, lots and lots of lube.
Him on top is a lot easier, trust me.
Spread your legs as wide as you can, or bring them up around your chest and hole them there, with bent knees. And position him, because he will be clumsy and won't get it right. You know your body more than him, talk to him every step of the way. Make sure he talks to you too.

Sex isn't about shoving it in and fucking until you're all spent. It should be an experience that involves communication and lots of fun. Your first time should be extra special too.

lustandlovelost · 05-18-2008, 01:13 PM

thanks, that was really helpfull.

but yeah i tried the positioning but the thing is we never tried for very long cause it was so funny we just laughed then kinda gave up. i think if we carried on trying it might of worked at the end, but the moment was kinda gone. okay im gunna try and remember all of this. haha watch me print all this and haul it out while were about to have sex =P

DeLarge · 05-18-2008, 01:55 PM

Hahaha. Well at least you laughed about it all. Me and my ex always had real fun sex. If things went wrong we just laughed and carried on. Nothing was ever a problem.

lustandlovelost · 05-18-2008, 02:12 PM

haha exactly. I'm so glad i did it with someone im so comfortable with cuz it wasnt awkward at alll it was just funny but hopefully next time it will go right..

DeLarge · 05-18-2008, 02:21 PM

I hope it does too. Keep us all informed hey?

lustandlovelost · 05-18-2008, 03:02 PM

I will for sure :]

DeLarge · 05-18-2008, 03:15 PM

Sounds good to me.