exgay

ihaveadog · 05-20-2008, 10:41 AM

Yes sometimes I think about guys when I masturbate but I would never want a boy friend. I don’t feel attracted to guys that way.

cant_think_of_a_username · 05-21-2008, 03:23 AM

wow. i recently posted on this and now i know exactly what u mean. i think of guys when i jack off too but the thought of marrying a guy just weirds me out. i wanna get married to an amazing woman and raise kids. so i know where youre coming from

Teen14 · 05-21-2008, 04:12 AM

Well i used to feel the same way, like i couldnt possibly consider having a relationship with a guy but that all changes as you start growing up. Like being 14 to 17 my views have definatley changed. You cant really fight what your attracted to so your just going to have to go with what makes you happy

cant_think_of_a_username · 05-21-2008, 04:25 AM

yeah but what makes me happy is cuddling up with a girl that i really really love and want to share my life with. i think i already know who thats going to be too. and im not fighting what im attracted to, im searching for it. and i think its that girl...

JCpatriots · 05-21-2008, 07:36 AM

Someone could claim they are, but it wouldn't actually be real. Being gay isn't a choice, it's something you are born with.

apollo-might · 05-21-2008, 07:40 AM

I've met a girl who claims to be a "hasbien"

ihaveadog · 05-21-2008, 07:42 AM

but is your born with your sexual orientation then how can that be possible.

JCpatriots · 05-21-2008, 07:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ihaveadog

but is your born with your sexual orientation then how can that be possible.

Some people don't think gay people are born gay. They think they decide: "hey, I want to be gay." just out of the blue one day just for the hell of it.

apollo-might · 05-21-2008, 07:58 AM

a temporary preference perhaps?

ihaveadog · 05-22-2008, 01:52 AM

maybe

runner · 05-22-2008, 07:17 AM

I think a lot of people are confused about the term "sexual preference". A sexual preference doesn't mean what sexuality you prefer, it means who you are attracted to, regardless of whether you like it or not. The preference is not a conscious decision.

ihaveadog · 05-22-2008, 09:05 AM

so then is it possible to change subconscious thoughts?

runner · 05-22-2008, 10:05 AM

in regards to homosexuality, the cause is not yet known, and obviously there is no cure right now, otherwise the lines for it would probably be longer than the ones to get a gay marriage.

Jacky Jules · 05-26-2008, 12:50 AM

I'm not so sure about that.. it would have to be done ins ecret otherwise the exgay discrimination front would be in there like a shot.. no ones sheds what they used to be entirely, biologically of psychologically so even if there was a 'cure' it couldn't possibly work...

I'm gay, I want a wedding more than I want a marriage, i think the part of a marriage that I want is the devotion that comes in the minds of people when they get married and I want that without the confines of a legal binding. I also want a kid, but I dont think i could ever trust another guy enough to have a kid with him, but i can see me and a female friend who feels the same having a kid.. wierd but id trust her way more than any man.. AND i dont want to adopt because the kid might grow up to be ugly..

miss-morphine · 05-26-2008, 12:56 AM

I don't think you can be ex gay. :s
You're either gay or you're not.

It's probably just confusion.