exgay

ihaveadog · 05-20-2008, 07:50 AM

is it possible to be an exgay. As in you used to like your own sex and now you exclusively like the other. And if it is, is there anyone on this forum that is one.

because i would have alot of questions for you.

Vanack · 05-20-2008, 07:54 AM

It's just a change in your personal view. It's easy.

You think you like something, you try it, then hate it, or the opposite.

It's not a big deal.

zzzconzzz · 05-20-2008, 07:54 AM

well im not an exgay but i don't really think you can choose which gender you like and which you dont

and i don't think you can change which you like cause i think people who do that are

A) very confused
B) bisexual and cant make up there minds

i mean im not saying its impossible i mean you can be fine with men one day and woman the next it just depends on who you are

hope it helps

cant_think_of_a_username · 05-20-2008, 07:59 AM

yea id probably consider that bisexual because you might go back to liking one or the other. but at my age, 14, i consider everyone bisexual because we still have times to realize and know what and who we like

hope that maybe cleared it up

ihaveadog · 05-20-2008, 07:59 AM

so you dont think that sexuality is in your dna

cant_think_of_a_username · 05-20-2008, 08:01 AM

no i do but it takes a while to "realize" it. be what you feel and feel good doing it

zzzconzzz · 05-20-2008, 08:04 AM

DNA is just like a storage of information which builds other things in your body so
it could be in the process of building your sexuality but its not complete so you don't really know which gender you like.

ihaveadog · 05-20-2008, 08:08 AM

But I personally don’t like how society treats homosexuals or anyone that not entirely straight. I think I’m straight but not 100% and I’m sure many ppl would love to do what they feel but they don`t so if it’s in your DNA how would you be able to go against it

zzzconzzz · 05-20-2008, 08:10 AM

Denial? will power?

i don't know cause im bisexual and i never really tried going against it cause i couldn't really give a flying goat about what society thinks of me.

ihaveadog · 05-20-2008, 08:17 AM

but it’s not only that I care what society thinks it’s that I want to get married one day, have children, and stuff I do have some sexually feelings for guys sometimes but I would never want to have a relationship with a guy like romantically.

zzzconzzz · 05-20-2008, 08:21 AM

you can get married with a guy in some countries and you can adopt but thats not for every one but i get where coming your from

tho if you get attracted to a guy and hes attracted to you. you might not feel the same way as before

ihaveadog · 05-20-2008, 08:26 AM

what do you meen?

zzzconzzz · 05-20-2008, 08:30 AM

what i mean is if you ever get attracted to a guy theres a good chance you might love him later if you become close to him and you might not care that hes not a woman and you might marry him.

mind to notice the "if"s and the "might"s not saying you will just saying what could happen

ihaveadog · 05-20-2008, 08:35 AM

Oh...but I only feel attracted to guys when I’m horny like I wouldn’t have a relationship but I have thought about having sex with guys

zzzconzzz · 05-20-2008, 08:39 AM

so you only think about guys when your masturbating? i think your body might be trying to tell you something
but its your body and your sexual preference so i cant really give you the 100% answer