Keep inmind this is akward asking this...

Well im 19 years old and i've been seeing my girlfriend for a pretty long time now. Now i am a virgin and she has been with 1 other guy. I really care for her. She has asked 2 times if I wanted to have sex, now I was scared, confused, ect. so i said it wasn't the right time. I do want to have sex with her but i got questions. I mean would sex at 19 be like...uhh sluty (in the guy slutty way) I mean I seen on the forum that like 14 year olds have done it but..I don't know. She is on the pill [for "womenly" issues] but is it compleatly safe or would be using a condom be wise for extra protection? And lastly, and the most embarrasing..if I like...am "done" before she is..... do I like do what she says..or like..am I supposed to go with the flow or..

i can just say 19 is not slutty at all.

I agree

14 Years olds tend to exaggerate their sexual experience

well most guys stop when there 'done'

and your not a guy slut!
lol.

if you want to do it, then do it, if your scared just ask her to be the one in control, its not hard (:

Well I'm no expert, but since you're a virgin and she isn't you'll probably finish quickly...but she'll understand if she knows.

People say condoms are always a good idea, no matter how many pills shes on but in my opinion you probably don't have to use it. The only thing to think about its diseases.

Use condoms.

TALK TO HER! If you really think you two are ready to have sex, you should be able to talk about these things!