I usually go for guys...

WSS?? · 06-27-2008, 09:15 AM

okay well... im a 16 year old girl...
and i started noticing this girl at school a lot... and when i looked over at her she would be looking at me...
and now when i see her in the hall i get the whole butterflys in the stumache thing... i know shes the same age as me... and the thing is that ive never felt like this for a girl...

i usually go for guys...

i dont really know wats going on... i think i like her... sometimes i even look forward to seeing her around... and when i look at her she just has this look in her eyes that makes me think shes interested in me... but i dont know... i think i like her... but im not really sure...
what should i do??...

yayitsjoe · 06-27-2008, 09:33 AM

maybe you think your a little too old to have these feelings, but maybe your having bi-curious feelings. although, that usually occurs before your age, it's not necessarily weird or anything so don't get down on yourself.

i would wait it out, see if you feel the same way two weeks from now. then, you can't start to really worry, i think.

i'm not an expert on the subject, but i'm trying to help.

Neal · 06-27-2008, 09:38 AM

Whatever it is, it's not a problem.

stephania · 06-27-2008, 12:53 PM

Good day WSS,

I guess you just conscious why you like her and you have the same gender. That situation it’s not new in this society today.

Just try to observe yourself; I know that feelings cannot be controlled. I know also your try to control yourself not to look her or find her if she’s not around but still you’re looking at her.

Each and everyone cannot blame you because it’s un-controlled emotion.

But if theirs a time or way that you can control it then go for it.

Bellerr · 06-27-2008, 06:19 PM

Why is this being made out to be a bad thing? Maybe she's a lesbian, what's wrong with that? I say go for it and see if she feels the same way, to explore your sexuality and just have fun. There's nothing wrong with liking the same sex.

Suzy · 06-27-2008, 08:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Bellerr

Why is this being made out to be a bad thing? Maybe she's a lesbian, what's wrong with that? I say go for it and see if she feels the same way, to explore your sexuality and just have fun. There's nothing wrong with liking the same sex.

Seconded - if she feels the same way than that's perfectly natural and you could develop the relationship. If not, then you should look at your feelings. It's normal and pretty healthy to be bi-curious - wouldn't worry about anything!

RickAstley · 06-27-2008, 10:10 PM

It's not a problem and it's nothing you should be embarrassed about.

When I was about 15 I started developing thoughts about being with someone of my same gender and I went through a very similar dilemma...

At and around your age many teens have a sense of curiosity that is unyielding... In my opinion, openly face them and give it a shot - There is really no harm to it whatsoever. If you find happiness, then by god, you've done nothing but make yourself a better person.

Best of luck!

Bellerr · 06-28-2008, 06:04 PM

Yay for cool people who agree with me.

=]
But seriously.. don't feel like it's a bad thing, and good luck =]

Archangel--x · 06-28-2008, 08:47 PM

I Have the same problem with one of My Best Friends, But i think she is also bi-curious because one day we were having a sort of
'Heart to Heart'
And she asked me did i ever think i was a lesbian, but then someone walked into the room and we havent talked about it since.

Should i do something about it? Im worried if i do she'll just take the piss or something if shes not bi-curious