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Old 06-28-2008, 09:16 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Why is it...

When a guy has sex at 14 or 15-- his buddies consider him "cool".
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When a girl has sex at 14 or 15-- everyone considers her a slut.

One concept I've never really grasped...
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Old 06-28-2008, 09:21 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: Why is it...

Well, think about it. Is there a male term for slut?

In this case, they mean the same thing. Slut means cool.
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Its called a double standard. They're irrational and stupid.

Sort of like its more acceptable for a women to hit a guy but not the other way around. Using physical violence against anyone regardless of gender is unacceptable unless a life is in danger.
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Re: Why is it...

Male term for slut: Manwhore, player, rootrat, pimp, cock-brained and gigolo in some cases.
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Re: Why is it...

I wonder how slut could be interpreted as anything bad when used on a car.

For example, suppose a girl shows cleavage. Oh, she's a slut!

Or a girl goes to the beach. Oh, she's a slut!

If anything, this might be an attack the uglier girls use. But I don't see why it should matter, though.

If a girl strips for a group of guys, and gets hated by all the lesser-attractive girls, and all the guys like it, well, it obviously depends on who's more important to her, the guys or the girls that care.

I suppose it's common to have a cheerleader vs. non-cheerleader popularity.

Edit: Yea I meant girl, not car. O_o
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That's kind of true to a certain extent-- I'm not exactly pretty by any means and it kinda pisses me off when I see other girls dress skimpy because they're all pretty and tiny and can get away with it ¬_¬
But I never call other girls sluts for it. I keep it to myself lol.
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Lol, girls at my school who've fucked aren't sluts, just the ones who do it repeatedly, every night to som extent.
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Re: Why is it...

well in our school if you do anything with a guy who youre not nessesarily dating your called a whore or a slut but the guy is praised.
And prettier girls than yourself would also call you a slut =S I dont understand this either
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Re: Why is it...

Eh. Name-calling is so immature, and shouldn't exist. And boys only get 'praised' because society is fucked up.
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Re: Why is it...

I find it rather comical the amount of sexist remarks we throw around. take this for example.

Stud = cool guy.

Bitch = not so cool girl.

a bitch is a female dog...

but did you know a stud is a male dog?

so calling a woman a dog is a great uinsult, whilst calling a man a dog is a compliment? XDDDD LMAO!

sociaty is really messed up!
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Old 06-28-2008, 08:34 PM   #11 (permalink)
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I never really understood it either... I always thought it was messed. Its not fair. its so stupid that guys are considered "cool" if they are sleeping around with chicks but when a girl does it she's a slut. and they say that equality is high. ya i mean women dont have to stay at home with the children and be a house wife, but we still cant do everything without being judged. its stupid
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Re: Why is it...

I always noticed that guys like brag about it too...
Like in their buddy groups they're like "I slammed Maria so hard last night."
And then it's like their friends have to one-up it. Like "Oh yeah? Well I ran into Stacy and Katie last night at the party, and I fucked them both at the same time."
And then when a girl is with her friends and she says something along the lines "Yeah. Me and Joey have been dating for a little over a year now. I'm in love with him. And we thought it was time that we finally had sex."
Her friends call her a slut behind her back.
It's like ... wtf.
So it's perfectly okay for a guy to fuck strangers.
But it's not okay for a girl to sleep with a guy she's in love with.
Yeah. Makes perfect sense. :/
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Male term for slut: Manwhore, player, rootrat, pimp, cock-brained and gigolo in some cases.
I wouldnt mind being called a pimp
& Yeah double standards
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I've noticed.

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