Boys! I need help, I need you to answer a question 100% honestly.

Maxwell.C? · 07-20-2008, 04:02 PM

My Dear i am gonna tell you something... is not about sex, you are an amazing woman, beautiful woman, and i feel atracted for a girl who respect her self, and waits for a guy who ask her to get out, it is good if you go to places and meet new people, but let the boys follow you, make it hard... they have to win you...you are the prize, and if someone get you, he has to take care of you like a rose,with love and respect...do you know what i mean,, the guy who deserve you, will see all the good things you told us before...that's the point i am trying to make.. i hope you get the idea.

sakrileg · 08-04-2008, 11:00 PM

Well I think you're an amazing girl and you're not the one who should worry. Boys should try to gain your attention.

mvp23_08 · 08-04-2008, 11:11 PM

i like an aggressive girl it shows me they really want me for who im am. girl u got the whole package just be assertive and go after the man u want. most of these girls want the man to come up to them and most of the time its not the right man for them. go find him and trust me u'll find the right man be patient don't be scared like alot of these other girls are. most of the girls say that im too aggressive but the real reason they say that is that they can't handle a real man. so go for the gold and if they reject u keep goin don't stop

PUTTHERUF · 08-20-2008, 04:23 PM

personaly i like a girl who is them self and doesnt bitch about other girls (i hate that) who is funny and just wants to have fun but it is different for all guys

Alex_Rosque · 08-20-2008, 05:50 PM

When you get into your late teens guys reach a point were they want to have flings or non serious relationships for a few years, then they start wanting to find a long term partner probably 25+ not always but its the usual.

With attractive girls, sometimes guys think that you are just to good for them and that you would get approached often. When in reality if most guys think this you hardly ever get approached. And you can expect guys to approach if your not giving signals off, like smiling or eye contact... guys rarely approach even with signals so without any your really not giving them a bait.

Also you may not be going to the right places were guys are, which would also limit yourself.

Alot of girls are insecure and get validated when guys want them, maybe thats why the desperate girls get the guys. If you want it you'll get it.

assassinROW · 08-20-2008, 08:42 PM

Yeah what Alex said is really correct. If you think or know of someone you like or likes you, give them some signals. Then they will notice you like them, or have an interest in them. And that gives them a reason to go after you.

idk2008 · 08-20-2008, 09:54 PM

Maybe the guys you hang around with aren't the type who understands what a great girl really is all about. You sound like the perfect kind of person who would make any guy happy, as long as he appreciated who you are.

Those 'other' girls sometimes throw themselves onto 'easy' guys who just want some fast sex. Those girls are not the ones who are chosen to marry guys, rather they are the ones who end up pregnant and then the guy marries them out of pity.

Stand your ground! lol.. The right guy is out there. You just haven't found him yet..

COK3CAD3T · 08-20-2008, 10:07 PM

maybe they think you are already taken,

being such a fine girl

x

sexiboi22 · 08-21-2008, 03:44 AM

most guys are inimidated by a beautiful smart girl. my g/f has a 3.9 several scholarships and all that. I was soo intimidated by her the first time i met her but once i realized whatshe was like i racked up the courage and talked to her. Just be yourself dont go desperate jut yourself

Kitsune · 08-21-2008, 09:25 AM

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Originally Posted by day_dream_believer001

Hey there. I'm constantly wondering about what guys are attracted to. I mean - I totally understand that's it a really personal thing, but it seems like the scary desperate girls are the ones getting the guys and the smart or really attractive girls actually aren't. It just doesn't make sense. I know that it's not right that the girls expect the guys to do all the work to initiate the relationship, but I'm not even wanting to get into that at the time. I've got a 3.8 GPA, a university scholarship, and I'm a part time model, and I really need my space, so being high maintenence is a non-issue. Guys barely seem to want to talk to me, and I just don't get it.

Can you tell me, is is 100% about sex?
Is it that they're scared?
Am I missing something?
Argh - help.

Holy shit... You're like the perfect woman. Smart and, apparently, good looking. You've got nothing to worry about man. All guys like sex, but that's just sex. What different guys are attracted to differs a lot... Just go to pick a few out and get to know them and pick which ever one you like if you like any one of them at least.

Hitman · 08-21-2008, 10:15 AM

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Originally Posted by woodz

me personally the chase makes it worth it. but u got the whole package girl so these guys dont need to do much searchin. u should have tha fellas lined up. if u lived in atlanta that would all be takin care of because we southern gentlemen know how to pursue a lady, and treat em right.
my advice
come down to atlanta

thats for damn sure us country boys know how to pursue a ladie and as for ur problem the guys think ur outta their leauge but u come down to south and ur fine

zioN · 08-21-2008, 01:21 PM

All the guys around you are probably extremely hormonal, and are just looking for someone to do.. Once they get out of that and have matured they start looking at the qualities that matter, like personality and intelligence. For me, I personally can't stand talking to a girl when she can't take what I'm saying and give me a response that keeps the flow of the conversation going. So no it's not all about sex for me, although sex is fun, that's all it is fun in private.

Truth B Told · 08-21-2008, 01:38 PM

You have a scholarship as in you are still currently in highschool?

Guys that only want Sex will get no where, just remember that when you see a couple and you know the only thing they do is sexual stuff.

I chased girls only for sex because, i knew i could get girls and i wanted to have sex.. and i did but, it made the overall relationship with the actual girl dull besides bed..

Just wait, the guy will come that will be the perfect mix who, will be attracted to you for who you are and what you do and don't want to do.

Truth Out

canadian_rain · 09-08-2008, 01:17 AM

aww you sound sweet, here is my opinion, if no guy get to know you and does not like you for who you are, they are not worth it, i look for personality and only a tiny bit of looks, from you pic, and how you sound, you seem fine, in fact your really cute, not everyone fines love at a young age, all you have to do is wait a little, the right one is out there waiting to meet you

you sound like a real sweet girl

vrank · 09-08-2008, 06:14 AM

I remember hearing about a girl who was like Miss Iowa or something. After her year, she could not get one date. Guys were scared shitless of her. The problem is that most guys just really don't have the balls to ask a really decent girl like that out. They are so insecure or think that no girl of that caliber could possibly be interested in them. Of course, it is not true at all, but that is the reality you are up against. It is probably going to take more effort on your part to make some guy feel more comfortable in the beginning . . . more so than you normally would if you were not as pretty, intelligent, and accomplished.