Hey there. I'm constantly wondering about what guys are attracted to. I mean - I totally understand that's it a really personal thing, but it seems like the scary desperate girls are the ones getting the guys and the smart or really attractive girls actually aren't. It just doesn't make sense. I know that it's not right that the girls expect the guys to do all the work to initiate the relationship, but I'm not even wanting to get into that at the time. I've got a 3.8 GPA, a university scholarship, and I'm a part time model, and I really need my space, so being high maintenence is a non-issue. Guys barely seem to want to talk to me, and I just don't get it.

Can you tell me, is is 100% about sex?
Is it that they're scared?
Am I missing something?
Argh - help.

i say ur missing nothing. sounds like u got the package girl.
maybe go out to some nightclubs, meet some new people, or jus put urself out their (not the slut way) and see what happens. guys like it when girls make themselves available. we dont like the chase so much. sooooooooooo yea i jus say either get out an meet new people. or be more assertive with the people u already know

Thanks, that was sweet of you

Well first off im only 16 so i've never had sex or many relationships (only had 4 girlfriends) Honestly I care less if the girl is smart or not as smart. I like everything in a girl, Nice, sexy, agressive, kinky, sweet ect. I don't know about other guys cause I have alot more girlfriends then guy friends (girlfriends and guyfriends ass friends not relationships) but i'm real shy, the 4 times i got a girlfriend they asked me out heh. I guess im just scared they will reject me or something. Eh, I hope i helped

honestly, if your a model, guys are probably scared as crap to talk to you. I know i would be approaching a model. For a lot of guys you might want to try dropping bigger hints that you like them at first, or even approaching them yourself.

Second about the scary desperate girls. A lot of then get guys because they act very whorish and make guys feel good about themselves while acting very very very interested. So guys basically don't have to get nervous at all talking to em. Its like, this chick likes me, shes hot, Im gonna go out with her. Smarter attractive girls usually seem a bit more uptight and usually come off as uninterested.

Just my 2 cents

Yeah, that helped, thanks darling

but yea i have to agree with you gigitty... no matter how much looking good can matter, in the end it all comes down to the girls personality.

Yeah i'm scared talking to regular girls If i wanted to go out with a model...*shudders in corner*

Ya as a guy Ill say that I don't like to have to really chase after a girl just to initiate a relationship. Maybe look for guys you maybe are interested and drop hints that you are or just try to make new friends, you never know what may happen. Hope this is a little help.

me personally the chase makes it worth it. but u got the whole package girl so these guys dont need to do much searchin. u should have tha fellas lined up. if u lived in atlanta that would all be takin care of because we southern gentlemen know how to pursue a lady, and treat em right.
my advice
come down to atlanta

i need a girl too be pretty, smart, interesting, and interested in ME. no its not all about sex

Most guys just don't like chasing that much, and from what you said it looks like they mostly think you're just outta their league

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damn! you're beautiful, smart, and actually want to go to college! thats a jackpot right there! haha. you should be fine!!

as for the guy thing. personaly, you'd be pretty much perfect for me haha.
those girls that get all the guys basically throw themselves at them just for the sake of having a boyfriend. you seem like the type of girl that wants a more serious relationship, which is gunna take a little more time. just find the right guy and get to know him as best as you can. if you bond really well, you've found him =]

me personally, im attracted to a girl who respects me and treats me lyk im the one and not just some random guy, i dont want a girl that plays mind games,

just me or is it that the guys that are str8 up assholes get all the girls? lol it swings both ways trust me.

Thanks everyone You all really helped.