The First Time... Scary Stuff

TheDreamer · 09-08-2008, 12:57 AM

Hey all, I'm still a virgin and i'm 17, and it scares me about having sex for the first time lol. I know that's perhaps a little stupid at my age but I know when the time comes i'm going to be very nervous and perhaps make a fool of myself.

I'm always kinda worried about the guy I do it with will judge me and compare me to other girls he's been with. Plus I know it's gonna kill and I really don't want to bleed lol. >.<

Cirrax Lankart · 09-08-2008, 01:02 AM

girls dont ALWAYS bleed...just most the time. and I've spoken to some that said they didnt even feel their hymen break.

but those that have said there was pain, told me it didnt last that long.

so dont worry. besides, its the guy thats always got to worry about performing, you hust have to lie there and enjoy it. ^^

Loopy_Loo · 09-08-2008, 01:04 AM

wow hun, u sound just like me when i was a virgin and i was dreading my 1st time!

there honestly is nothing to be scared about babe! u can never make a fool of yourself, the guy who is your first should respect who you are and not judge u buy 'how you do' and he most defiantly should not compare you to any other girl!
you are who u are and thats that.

as for you worrying about bleeding, i will tell you now every girl is differnet, it just luck, if you do so what! at least you know you wont the next time and babe it wont hurt, relax and enjoy it.

best of luck to u chick xxx

galitorgiam · 09-09-2008, 03:02 AM

if u think he'll judge he's not the right guy

Hitman · 09-09-2008, 03:20 AM

listen hes not gonna judge u in his mind hes thinking awsome im gonna fuck a virgin. he deffently wont judge u for not knowing what to do and anyways just let him do all the work