Hey everyone, I am new to this forum but decided to start participating right away. I need advice on another teenage crush problem.

I'm 14 and I go to a high school with about 2,200 students. During grade 8 at my middle school, I was flooded with new faces and couldn't figure out who to make friends with etc but there was one thing I knew. There was this one girl (not saying name due to privacy and stuff) who I had a Huge and i mean HUGE crush on. I had numerous oppurtunities throughout the year but never plucked up the courage to talk to her. Then, we entered high school. Same.OLd.story. Except this time, she was in 2 of 4 classes of mine during the second semester meaning I had not made any move for 4 months -.- During that time, I was with my best friend (privacy again) hanging out everyday not realizing what I was getting into. What you ask? He liked her too. That's right but unlike some friends, we just managed and acted casual although we knew it was competition. He talked to her way way way more than me and knew her more than me but he never made a move either. I had only one advantage: Every guy she went out with wore glasses..not really a big one. My only connection to her was her best friend whom I haven't talked to for a very loing time so that's out of the question. The only conversations we ever had were the ones I helped her with Science . I had heard some really nasty rumours about her (i.e.she gave handjobs to somene, she smoked etc) but they were all confimed false so thats a plus. The year has almost come to an end and my next chance is Grade 10. If anyone here could help get a good start with her, it would be great. My talents include badminton, playing the piano/trumpet, smart. Thanks in advance to every1 who takes their time to reply.

ok.....you might not like this but youve wasyed alotta time already.....lol......try to be were she is, if shes at a party go with your m8, just make yourself known......say "hi" in the hall way what ever you can do just make sure she knows you.......BUT try as hard as you can not to make it look like you fancy her....lol


ok, nextly try to be friends with her friends.......MAKE SURE YOU ARE GENUINLY INTERESTED IN BIN FRIENDS WITH HER M8S....NOT JUST USING THEM........

now hopefully shell know you more, shell talk to you more........and you can either ask her out str8 up...or (which is more advisable) become m8s with her go out n about with her...first one of your m8s n one of hers....then slowly loose the m8s after a few nights/days out and itll just be you and her......take it from thre become m8s or again ask her out str8....

this will take a while but hopefully youll have more m8s from it more of a sociual life....youll be able to find out more about her, you nevva kno you mite not actually liker her.......erm ye hope this has helped

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Hi, I need some help with my crush problems.. Hopefuly someone can help me .

Im 13, I go to a school with 1,500 year 8 students, but the thing is i like this boy, my best friend and I both liked him untill they went out but broke up. (I was over the moon). Anyway.. I like him too and i have done since i met him in year 7. We became best friends, we told eachother EVERYTHING and we still do, but i feel bad for not telling him that i've fallen in love with him. We went out once but i was too immature then, do i tell him or do i keep my feelings to myself? I flirt outrageously with him, and he flirts back, bu it is friendly flirt or is it pure flirting, i know that i would do anything to be with him, but the thing is telling him.. If i went out with him i wouldnt want things to get weird, but i'm scared that if i tell him about what I feel, he'll ditch me as a friend.. Im not exactly the best person to be going out with.. but i REALLY like him..

SOMEONE HELP!!! PLEASE. x Henchey x

Quite some time to be staring at a distance.

Talk to her, find a casual, nice time, and just "think something allowed", and you could end up in conversation, or just talk.

You just need to know her better. You'll be fine.

PS: The glasses thing probably isn't much help. :P

Guys, this guy isn't actually a guy with a crush if i had to bet...his join date was almost a year ago and who actually types LiKe THis? I MeAN ReALlY OnlY PeoPLe tHaT ThINk ThEy ARe TeENs...

Depressed, I've reported you for the frequent immature, disturbing posts you've been adding to this forums.

Quit spamming shit, you probably don't know depression, or cutting, or any type of problem.

Don't come here to make fun of people.

Actually I realized who is at fault here, Henchy revived a year old post by starting a new thread in it...