i had sex on friday for the first time and it happened on my friends boat.. we were out in the middle of no where basically and it was just me and him and nothing was supposed to happen cuz were just like best friends but i guess we both got carried away and we ended up doing it.. and well he took my viriginity away.. im pretty sure that he didnt use a condom and im just worried that i might be pregnant or something and its pretty awkward just talking to him too i guess, i dont know i just dont want to lose him as a friend. is there anything i can do about it still to prevent getting pregnant i guess even though its probably too late.. and do u know how to make our friendship go back to normal cuz its weird and awkward lately.

any response will help..

thanks

First thing you need to do is talk to him about what happened. You both need to understand that it was a heat-of-the-moment kind of thing, and just ask him if you can both forget it ever happened. If you really regret it, and if he does too, just ask him if you can forget it and go back to normal. I'm not too sure how easy that will be, because you did the dirtiest of the dirty (lol). It can be a tough thing to get through, but if you both cherish your friendship, you'll find a way to overcome this and be best friends again.

As for the pregnancy thing, don't stress about it too much, because stress makes your menstrual cycle get all fucked up, so you'll be late if you stress too much, then you'll start to think you're preggerz, and you'll stress even more! Just relax, and if you've gone a couple weeks without getting your period (from when you're supposed to), then take a pregnancy test. There's nothing you can do to stop it if you became pregnant from him, but you can get yourself checked out, and you can take other measures if you so choose.

Usually, every girl freaks out after her first time, they always think they're pregnant. I know I sure did. You need to sit down with this guy and ask him the questions you're curious about. Ask him if he wore a condom, if he's ever gotten a girl pregnant before, etc.

I know it's awkward, but you're not the only one that participated. He did too, so you need to put him in that awkward position and get the answers you need, and you both need to talk about why this happened, and if it will ever happen again, and like I said earlier, if you two can go back to normal.

__________________

thanks.. that really helped

you cant make the relationship go back to normal.. either its all downhill from here or you take the next step which is going out with him

thats the biggest load of shit i have heard.

if he used a condom, you'd know.

And derg.... go kill yourself. Please?

__________________
Yes I do! (no I dont)

It was her 1st time.....i dont think she would know it.......

__________________

even i think the same

__________________

You probbaly wouldnt have noticed if it was your first time, if you really dont want a baby if you are pregnt you should consider haveing an abortion, or if you want one well keep it.

__________________
Avacrafts online Boyfriend, Avacraft

reasons why I :heart: audrey

do not get an abortion if you are pregnant! If you are pregnant, put him/her up for adoption! You do not need to end an innocent life for your mistake!

__________________

It isn't your place to choose what she does if she's pregnant. Kindly stfu.

To the OP, you definatly need to talk to him about it. See where things lie between you and him
This doesn't mean your friendship has to end. It might just be awkward for a while. Specially if you are pregnant.

Oh and goodluck.

__________________

Maybe she should find out if she's pregnant first! Then if she is she can decide whats good for the baby and tell her friend. And if shes not then she can work on the relationship with her friend.

I agree with you

__________________