People think i am weird..

Absolutely Unsure · 06-22-2007, 06:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by rich

but that said, id take it as a blessing, life is so much less complicated without sex, be grateful.
x

well put! HEAR HEAR!!

Kat · 06-22-2007, 06:37 AM

I want to stay a virgin, i really do.

rich · 06-22-2007, 06:40 AM

just go easy on the booze then, or otherwise you might wake up one day and not be! (think many ppl been there!)

Phuck Buddy · 06-22-2007, 11:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kat1990

I am no particular religion. Can i ask what relgion has anything to do with it?

Because in some religions, sex is a sin. You might have been brought up thinking that way.

Quote:

Originally Posted by kat1990

Like i said i do not attract to males really at all.

You're definitely not straight or bi. Either lesbian or asexual

Quote:

Originally Posted by kat1990

I do not think of either in masterbation, pardon?

what do you think about?

Quote:

Originally Posted by kat1990

I do not want sexual activity with either sexes but i would prefer a normal relationship with a woman rather than a guy.

In a normal relationship, people have sex

Quote:

Originally Posted by kat1990

I do not understand myself at the slightest to be honest. I do not ever think sexually for either sexes.

I think Why is the big question here.

Kat · 06-23-2007, 03:25 AM

Well i did not grow up to follow a particular rule in any religion. Yes sex is something naturally in a relationship with a member of the oposite sex, but it isnt all about sex though.

I do not know why i dont know myself much, maybe because many do not know their sexuality. I am probably just bi.

$ air $ · 06-23-2007, 05:36 AM

Yowza.

You're not weird. You just have your own way of thinking. And you justify your personal arguments correctly, so

and don't let anyone tell you you're a freak for not wanting to have sex.

Kat · 06-23-2007, 05:39 AM

LOL i probably let people run over me way too easily in the past. you see you people are normal to not think that im weird.

Angelwings411 · 06-23-2007, 06:21 AM

Just because you attract to women more than men doesn't necessarily mean you are gay. Girls always will be closer or feel more content with other girls because they are best friends.

Hey, I am a virgin and I don't really find sex appealing right now either. It is not wierd at all, it is just telling you that maybe you are not really for a relationship.

If you keep feeling that you are gay, just trying going out with both sexes.

=]]

Kat · 06-24-2007, 01:59 AM

True true. I maybe just like having close contact to a female, i feel comfortable around them, ALOT more than males. Because there is so much in common between two females it does kind of make sense to feel more attracted to them. I have just always wanted a close relationship with a female (friendship) and showing the affection side is wonderful more towards a woman in my eyes. But yeah, thst does not mean i am gay. But i do find women more appealing lol

Limqe · 06-25-2007, 06:00 AM

Libido in its common usage means sexual desire; however, more technical definitions, such as those found in the work of Carl Jung,are more general, referring to libido as the free creative—or psychic—energy an individual has to put toward personal development, or individuation.

Loss of libido

Sometimes the sexual desire is reduced. This may or may not correlate with infertility.

Factors of reduced libido can be both psychological and physical;

[edit]
Psychological factors

Reduction in libido can occur from psychological causes such as loss of privacy and/or intimacy, stress, distraction or depression. It may also derive from the presence of environmental stressors such as prolonged exposure to elevated sound levels or bright light.

[edit]
Physical factors

Physical factors that can affect libido are lifestyle factors, medications and, accordingly to a study, the partner.

[edit]
Lifestyle

Being very underweight, severely obese, or undernourished can cause a low libido due to disruptions in normal hormonal levels[1].

Josh · 06-25-2007, 06:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kat1990

True true. I maybe just like having close contact to a female, i feel comfortable around them, ALOT more than males. Because there is so much in common between two females it does kind of make sense to feel more attracted to them. I have just always wanted a close relationship with a female (friendship) and showing the affection side is wonderful more towards a woman in my eyes. But yeah, thst does not mean i am gay. But i do find women more appealing lol

There is nothing wrong with being homosexual, and from what I have read that you have posted, is that you are probably lesbian, or bisexual at the least.

Kat · 06-30-2007, 05:48 AM

what do you mean? Well people have told me that a proper bisexual person would sexually attract to another person of the same sex. I don't. I'm just attracted to them on the outter side.

Spike · 06-30-2007, 04:07 PM

Sex is a way you show sombody how much you love them, its pointless if you do it without loving sombody. The gender doesnt matter just as long as you love them and they love you.

Kat · 07-01-2007, 02:53 AM

I love people without sex.

I know its a different type of love, but i think much more of my friends than sex. Then again they're both different loves

Kat · 09-20-2007, 06:01 AM

I actually find sex all natural now