Teen Forums  
Teen Forums Members Games Advertise Teen Magazine
 

Friends & Partners

Welcome to Teen Forums, an online teen forum community where you can join over thousands of teenagers discussing things related to Teens including teen help and teen advice.

You're currently viewing the teen forums as a guest with features such as Photos, Games and Journals disabled. To gain full access to Teen Forums you must register for a free account. As a registered member you will be able to:

  • Full forum access including image viewing, posting and private messaging.

  • Communicate privately with other teenagers from around the world.

  • Gain access to our unique profile system and other social networking features.

  • Post your own photos in our gallery or view other user submitted images.

  • Unlimited access to Arcade Games.

  • Blogging, writing and commenting.

All this and much more is available to you  when you register for an account. Registration is fast, simple and absolutely free, so join our community today!


Go Back   Teen Forums > Teen Life Forums > Teen Sexuality
Register FAQ/Rules Calendar Mark Forums Read

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 06-25-2007, 11:46 AM   #1 (permalink)
New Member
 
Last Online: 02-05-2008 10:56 AM
Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 22
Money: -2,075




dazedandconfused is an unknown quantity at this point


Points: 1,146, Level: 7
Points: 1,146, Level: 7 Points: 1,146, Level: 7 Points: 1,146, Level: 7
Activity: 0%
Activity: 0% Activity: 0% Activity: 0%


telling them to stop...

okay this is weird, but for some reason i find it extremely awkward to tell a guy to stop..advancing (sexually)..you could say..for example...if a guy is beginning to un button your pants and youre not really in the mood...do you just move his hand away or say "STOP."...its so awkwardddd...haha any suggestions?
dazedandconfused is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-25-2007, 11:49 AM   #2 (permalink)
Super Elite Member
 
Josh's Avatar
 
Last Online: 08-24-2008 01:13 PM
Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 4,386
Money: 12,243


My Mood:


Josh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond repute


Points: 2,236, Level: 10
Points: 2,236, Level: 10 Points: 2,236, Level: 10 Points: 2,236, Level: 10
Activity: 0%
Activity: 0% Activity: 0% Activity: 0%


Send a message via AIM to Josh Send a message via MSN to Josh Send a message via Yahoo to Josh
Re: telling them to stop...

dont get in that position?
__________________


God I love this Girl.
Josh is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-25-2007, 11:51 AM   #3 (permalink)
New Member
 
Last Online: 02-05-2008 10:56 AM
Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 22
Money: -2,075




dazedandconfused is an unknown quantity at this point


Points: 1,146, Level: 7
Points: 1,146, Level: 7 Points: 1,146, Level: 7 Points: 1,146, Level: 7
Activity: 0%
Activity: 0% Activity: 0% Activity: 0%


Re: telling them to stop...

so you cant make out with a guy without him getting sexually frustrated if you stop? eeek that sucks
dazedandconfused is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-25-2007, 11:54 AM   #4 (permalink)
Super Elite Member
 
Josh's Avatar
 
Last Online: 08-24-2008 01:13 PM
Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 4,386
Money: 12,243


My Mood:


Josh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond repute


Points: 2,236, Level: 10
Points: 2,236, Level: 10 Points: 2,236, Level: 10 Points: 2,236, Level: 10
Activity: 0%
Activity: 0% Activity: 0% Activity: 0%


Send a message via AIM to Josh Send a message via MSN to Josh Send a message via Yahoo to Josh
Re: telling them to stop...

no but if they you are making out then control it, i mean move his hands where you want them to be for him, and if you cant then think up an excuse i guess... i mean first off i totally thought this was a differnt thread so my awnser doesnt fit but also you can always just say no, may put a little strain but you never kno
__________________


God I love this Girl.
Josh is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-25-2007, 10:08 PM   #5 (permalink)
The Awesome
 
Phuck Buddy's Avatar
 
Last Online: 09-02-2008 09:43 PM
Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 18,879
Money: 3,196


My Mood:


Phuck Buddy has a reputation beyond reputePhuck Buddy has a reputation beyond reputePhuck Buddy has a reputation beyond reputePhuck Buddy has a reputation beyond reputePhuck Buddy has a reputation beyond reputePhuck Buddy has a reputation beyond reputePhuck Buddy has a reputation beyond reputePhuck Buddy has a reputation beyond reputePhuck Buddy has a reputation beyond reputePhuck Buddy has a reputation beyond reputePhuck Buddy has a reputation beyond reputePhuck Buddy has a reputation beyond reputePhuck Buddy has a reputation beyond reputePhuck Buddy has a reputation beyond reputePhuck Buddy has a reputation beyond reputePhuck Buddy has a reputation beyond repute


Points: 51,760, Level: 55
Points: 51,760, Level: 55 Points: 51,760, Level: 55 Points: 51,760, Level: 55
Activity: 0%
Activity: 0% Activity: 0% Activity: 0%


Re: telling them to stop...

You can try this:
Quote:
Not yet
or this:
Quote:
back off homo!
I prefer the latter.
Phuck Buddy is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-25-2007, 10:12 PM   #6 (permalink)
VIP Member
 
LUCY<3's Avatar
 
Last Online: 07-23-2008 08:38 AM
Join Date: Apr 2007
Posts: 5,679
Money: -1,688


My Mood:


LUCY<3 has a reputation beyond reputeLUCY<3 has a reputation beyond reputeLUCY<3 has a reputation beyond reputeLUCY<3 has a reputation beyond reputeLUCY<3 has a reputation beyond reputeLUCY<3 has a reputation beyond reputeLUCY<3 has a reputation beyond reputeLUCY<3 has a reputation beyond reputeLUCY<3 has a reputation beyond reputeLUCY<3 has a reputation beyond reputeLUCY<3 has a reputation beyond reputeLUCY<3 has a reputation beyond reputeLUCY<3 has a reputation beyond reputeLUCY<3 has a reputation beyond reputeLUCY<3 has a reputation beyond reputeLUCY<3 has a reputation beyond repute


Points: 26,043, Level: 39
Points: 26,043, Level: 39 Points: 26,043, Level: 39 Points: 26,043, Level: 39
Activity: 0%
Activity: 0% Activity: 0% Activity: 0%


Send a message via AIM to LUCY<3 Send a message via MSN to LUCY<3
Re: telling them to stop...

tell him you're on your rag or you're a lesbian and you're just not going to get off with a guy....
or if all else fails, you can say "i have something to confess...i was born a man..."
i bet he'd stop then. (unless you know, eewww.)
__________________

I <3 YOU!
LUCY<3 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-26-2007, 01:21 AM   #7 (permalink)
Junior Member
 
Orange County Ca's Avatar
 
Last Online: 07-22-2008 02:22 AM
Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 152
Money: -2,070




Orange County Ca will become famous soon enough




Re: telling them to stop...

It's your body. The line between teasing and not is blurry. My guess is if either one of your is starting to breath heavy then that's the line.

If you find difficulity in saying "no" it's usually because of a desire to be liked by everybody. You will have to consciouslly focus on that fact and train yourself mentally to not let the feeling overcome you when you need to say no.
__________________
^
^
^
Take it easy. There are exceptions to everything I say.
Orange County Ca is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-26-2007, 03:07 AM   #8 (permalink)
Advanced Member
 
BabyJos's Avatar
 
Last Online: 06-27-2008 06:19 AM
Join Date: Apr 2007
Posts: 8,257
Money: -833


My Mood:


BabyJos has a reputation beyond reputeBabyJos has a reputation beyond reputeBabyJos has a reputation beyond reputeBabyJos has a reputation beyond reputeBabyJos has a reputation beyond reputeBabyJos has a reputation beyond reputeBabyJos has a reputation beyond reputeBabyJos has a reputation beyond reputeBabyJos has a reputation beyond reputeBabyJos has a reputation beyond reputeBabyJos has a reputation beyond reputeBabyJos has a reputation beyond reputeBabyJos has a reputation beyond reputeBabyJos has a reputation beyond repute


Points: 22,795, Level: 36
Points: 22,795, Level: 36 Points: 22,795, Level: 36 Points: 22,795, Level: 36
Activity: 0%
Activity: 0% Activity: 0% Activity: 0%


Send a message via AIM to BabyJos Send a message via MSN to BabyJos
Re: telling them to stop...

Quote:
Originally Posted by hippie-grl View Post
tell him you're on your rag or you're a lesbian and you're just not going to get off with a guy....
or if all else fails, you can say "i have something to confess...i was born a man..."
i bet he'd stop then. (unless you know, eewww.)
__________________
Super Baby Ninja
Member of the Kind of Wierd Sexy Club

BabyJos is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-26-2007, 04:41 AM   #9 (permalink)
 
Absolutely Unsure's Avatar
 
Last Online: 06-18-2008 03:21 AM
Join Date: May 2007
Posts: 1,190
Money: -2,049


My Mood:


Absolutely Unsure has a reputation beyond reputeAbsolutely Unsure has a reputation beyond reputeAbsolutely Unsure has a reputation beyond reputeAbsolutely Unsure has a reputation beyond reputeAbsolutely Unsure has a reputation beyond reputeAbsolutely Unsure has a reputation beyond reputeAbsolutely Unsure has a reputation beyond reputeAbsolutely Unsure has a reputation beyond reputeAbsolutely Unsure has a reputation beyond reputeAbsolutely Unsure has a reputation beyond reputeAbsolutely Unsure has a reputation beyond reputeAbsolutely Unsure has a reputation beyond repute


Points: 7,799, Level: 21
Points: 7,799, Level: 21 Points: 7,799, Level: 21 Points: 7,799, Level: 21
Activity: 0%
Activity: 0% Activity: 0% Activity: 0%


Re: telling them to stop...

I agree with Jos.
__________________
. : Hard Work Pays Off in the Long Run. Laziness Pays Off NOW : .

Member of the Kind of Weird Sexy Club
Absolutely Unsure is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-26-2007, 02:58 PM   #10 (permalink)
 
There is no O in BLT's Avatar
 
Last Online: 03-28-2008 02:13 AM
Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 1,430
Money: -1,562


My Mood:


There is no O in BLT has much to be proud ofThere is no O in BLT has much to be proud ofThere is no O in BLT has much to be proud ofThere is no O in BLT has much to be proud ofThere is no O in BLT has much to be proud ofThere is no O in BLT has much to be proud ofThere is no O in BLT has much to be proud ofThere is no O in BLT has much to be proud of


Points: 6,382, Level: 19
Points: 6,382, Level: 19 Points: 6,382, Level: 19 Points: 6,382, Level: 19
Activity: 0%
Activity: 0% Activity: 0% Activity: 0%


Re: telling them to stop...

Quote:
Originally Posted by hippie-grl View Post
tell him you're on your rag or you're a lesbian and you're just not going to get off with a guy....
or if all else fails, you can say "i have something to confess...i was born a man..."
i bet he'd stop then. (unless you know, eewww.)
lmfao.... .... lmfao

But seriously just say NO! very loud and sternly if you have to, and push him away. Don't be afraid to assert yourself, it is YOUR body.
__________________
"Penguins. Lovely." - Edward in Eclipse

Eclipse by Stephenie Meyer. You know you want to read it.

There is no O in BLT is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-26-2007, 03:47 PM   #11 (permalink)
Elite Member
 
OMFT's Avatar
 
Last Online: 12-09-2007 07:16 PM
Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 2,232
Money: -2,055


My Mood:


OMFT is just really niceOMFT is just really niceOMFT is just really nice


Points: 8,506, Level: 22
Points: 8,506, Level: 22 Points: 8,506, Level: 22 Points: 8,506, Level: 22
Activity: 0%
Activity: 0% Activity: 0% Activity: 0%


Re: telling them to stop...

Say "I'm a lesbian".
Or bite his dick, that would work.
Or say "Uh, I don't think you want to go down there" and start gagging and hold your nose.
Or just say "Stop" and push his hand away.
__________________

Linkin <3
21st April 07


OMFT is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-26-2007, 08:19 PM   #12 (permalink)
Kat
TH obsessed
 
Kat's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 32,289
Money: 38,933


My Mood:


Kat has a reputation beyond repute
Kat has a reputation beyond reputeKat has a reputation beyond reputeKat has a reputation beyond reputeKat has a reputation beyond reputeKat has a reputation beyond reputeKat has a reputation beyond reputeKat has a reputation beyond reputeKat has a reputation beyond reputeKat has a reputation beyond reputeKat has a reputation beyond reputeKat has a reputation beyond reputeKat has a reputation beyond reputeKat has a reputation beyond reputeKat has a reputation beyond repute


Points: 87,326, Level: 72
Points: 87,326, Level: 72 Points: 87,326, Level: 72 Points: 87,326, Level: 72
Activity: 100%
Activity: 100% Activity: 100% Activity: 100%


Re: telling them to stop...

I was scared of telling my ex to stop it when he felt me. I hated it but i did not dare to say anything.
I hate this side to a relationship with a guy.
__________________
REP ME! pretty please
Kat is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-26-2007, 09:42 PM   #13 (permalink)
VIP Member
 
LUCY<3's Avatar
 
Last Online: 07-23-2008 08:38 AM
Join Date: Apr 2007
Posts: 5,679
Money: -1,688


My Mood:


LUCY<3 has a reputation beyond reputeLUCY<3 has a reputation beyond reputeLUCY<3 has a reputation beyond reputeLUCY<3 has a reputation beyond reputeLUCY<3 has a reputation beyond reputeLUCY<3 has a reputation beyond reputeLUCY<3 has a reputation beyond reputeLUCY<3 has a reputation beyond reputeLUCY<3 has a reputation beyond reputeLUCY<3 has a reputation beyond reputeLUCY<3 has a reputation beyond reputeLUCY<3 has a reputation beyond reputeLUCY<3 has a reputation beyond reputeLUCY<3 has a reputation beyond reputeLUCY<3 has a reputation beyond reputeLUCY<3 has a reputation beyond repute


Points: 26,043, Level: 39
Points: 26,043, Level: 39 Points: 26,043, Level: 39 Points: 26,043, Level: 39
Activity: 0%
Activity: 0% Activity: 0% Activity: 0%


Send a message via AIM to LUCY<3 Send a message via MSN to LUCY<3
Re: telling them to stop...

tell him you have crabs or something. LMAO that would work too, man!
tell him its against your religion
tell him he smells like ass and his peeter's too small
__________________

I <3 YOU!
LUCY<3 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 06-26-2007, 09:44 PM   #14 (permalink)
Advanced Member
 
BabyJos's Avatar
 
Last Online: 06-27-2008 06:19 AM
Join Date: Apr 2007
Posts: 8,257
Money: -833


My Mood:


BabyJos has a reputation beyond reputeBabyJos has a reputation beyond reputeBabyJos has a reputation beyond reputeBabyJos has a reputation beyond reputeBabyJos has a reputation beyond reputeBabyJos has a reputation beyond reputeBabyJos has a reputation beyond reputeBabyJos has a reputation beyond reputeBabyJos has a reputation beyond reputeBabyJos has a reputation beyond reputeBabyJos has a reputation beyond reputeBabyJos has a reputation beyond reputeBabyJos has a reputation beyond reputeBabyJos has a reputation beyond repute


Points: 22,795, Level: 36
Points: 22,795, Level: 36 Points: 22,795, Level: 36