So, I have this friend. We're like best friends. A couple of months ago, we decided to experiment with eachother. I had always been curious about having sex with a girl and like...I would fantasize about it and such. I thought I was bicurious, so one day I just asked her about it and we decided to do it. It was AMAZING and I dunno, I just really liked it. I became obsessed with her, and her body and like..imagining us doing and making out. So I just knew that I was a bisexual (cause I have a boyfriend) Anyways, so we did it about 3 more times, and it was just great. I really like doing it with her. I think I'm falling in love with her now, or getting feelings for her, but I don't know if I should tell her or not. We never really discussed whether or not we had feelings for eachother & I don't want to freak her out by saying anything about my feelings. It's been a couple of months since we've even done anything, and she's working at cedar point so I haven't seen her in a while. BUt when I think about us, having sex, I just get so turned on. & when I think about her, I think about how much I like her and stuff. I've always had a crush on her, I just never wanted to tell her. I don't know what to do. I guess what I'm asking is should I keep this to myself, or tell her and see what she thinks. AHHH! This is so confusing. I don't even know if I'm bi or not. I mean I think I am, I'm just kinda scared to accept it. Well any insight would be much appreciated. Thanks <3

if you are or aren't bi is a matter of time until you realise such thing, don't freak out! it's not that big deal infact i think it's great! and about your girl.. well, you should try to imagine what would happen if you tell her or if you don't.. try to imagine how'd she react and stuff so you can see what you are up to.

hope it helps

you should tell her.

Well if you had sex more than once, it is most likely that she has feelings for you as well.
Like you said, if you have been friends for awhile, she would want you to be honest with her.

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someone needs to start a thread answering the most common questions

he cheated on me, what should I do -> DUMP HIS ASS!
I like a girl, should I tell her? -> Duh....ya

Yeah...you really should just tell her. However, if you do, you also have to tell your boyfriend and accept that if you gain one relationship, you could easily lose another.

or have both. I'm sure the guy won't mind having a 3some with his girl and another girl.

edit: or even if she likes her bf watch, that'd would be cool with me too

I think you should leave hints, because that way you wont scare her too much incase she might get scared. But I trueling think you should be honest and say "I love you"

well me and my boyfriend aren't together anymore.

anyways but I'm just scared of freaking her out and losing a friend. but the fact that we did more than once makes me think that she may like me too, i just don't want to assume. my main fear is freaking her out, and then she won't want to be around me anymore. ya know? because us having sex was us just experimenting at first and i kinda feel like a retard because i began to gain feelings for her through it, and she probably just looks at it as "just having fun"
how do i know if she likes me (even if it's just a smidge) without making a complete idiot of myself?

I have an idea, well experment with each other again and then during "Ecpermention" tell her what she feels about you and stuff lie that, good luck pet.

well I told her, last night and we decided to "date" lol so everything's good, thanks guys for all of the advice!

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