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Basically, this girl I know/go to school with, recently I found out she's bisexual, and I can see myself having a thing for her.
We like the same type of music/bands and other stuff, but we haven't really hung out outside of school before. After realizing how much we do have in common and all, messaging on Friendster I said we should hang out some time, and she said definitely. So now we're hanging out sometime next week, which'll be fun (as friends, of course).
On my Friendster I don't have anything selected for 'interested in'.. just thought I'd point that out for the next part.
Anyway, so I don't know if I should tell her I'm gay or just play things out and see what happens. I just don't wanna make it awkward if I DO say something, you know? I don't want her to avoid hanging out with me or something like that.. or make it seem like I'm promiscuous or what-have-you.
But my reasoning behind why I SHOULD tell her is that if I don't, she might be like, 'well we have a lot in common and I kinda like her but she's straight so I have to forget about anything more than friends' and I don't want that to happen. So, I don't know... opinions?
Well, I'm not totally "out" so that's why I don't have it selected already.. which makes it more of a pain, as you can see. I definitely only see myself with girls in the future, too.
don't say anything on friendster or to her. just go out as "friends" on your "date" and make your move or let her make her move. let it happen naturally.
edit: if you want, you could SUBTLY tell her that you are bi
don't say anything on friendster or to her. just go out as "friends" on your "date" and make your move or let her make her move. let it happen naturally.
edit: if you want, you could SUBTLY tell her that you are bi
Yeah, I think I'm just gonna let it play out and see what happens.. she may already have an idea that I am anyway, so yeah. Thanks.
yeah i agree with missV and phuckbuddy
i had told my best firend i was bi after we knew eachother for awhile. i had got to know her fairly well, and the subject came up and i just worked it into the conversation. we were talking about homophobic people in our school, and i was like, yeah, if i told any of them i was bi they would probably never talk to me again... and it went on from there
I agree with PhuckBuddy, and let us know how shit goes.
Haha, I will.
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Originally Posted by hkittyly
yeah i agree with missV and phuckbuddy
i had told my best firend i was bi after we knew eachother for awhile. i had got to know her fairly well, and the subject came up and i just worked it into the conversation. we were talking about homophobic people in our school, and i was like, yeah, if i told any of them i was bi they would probably never talk to me again... and it went on from there
Just Phuck it! 
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