Basement
Car
Figure out times when parents will not be home.

If your not old enough to drive somewhere then I really wish you would reconsider. Sex will not strengthen your relationship in any way, and will cause problems for you later on in life. Is a short period of "pleasure" really worth all the problems it will cause? I really wish I knew how old you are, because if your over 18 then my advice loses some significance. However I wish that you would have enough respect for her to wait. Yes I know that everyone is having sex, and I'm not judging you if you do. I am just a guy trying to change the ways of the world.

Anyways I hope it all works out for you whateer you choose.

car. friend's place when they're out. hotel. park. :confused:

you can do it pretty much anywhere at night. just go to a place where there aren't many people at night.
the local kids her all go to the school stadium at night to do it.

AlexMason wrote:

If your not old enough to drive somewhere then I really wish you would reconsider. Sex will not strengthen your relationship in any way, and will cause problems for you later on in life. Is a short period of "pleasure" really worth all the problems it will cause? I really wish I knew how old you are, because if your over 18 then my advice loses some significance. However I wish that you would have enough respect for her to wait. Yes I know that everyone is having sex, and I'm not judging you if you do. I am just a guy trying to change the ways of the world.

Anyways I hope it all works out for you whateer you choose.

Please, explain to me how having sex will cause problems later in life. And try not to sound like too much of a crusader while doing it.

Beware, hes gonna start talking about god.

DREAM3R wrote:

Beware, hes gonna start talking about god.

I know, I'm excited.

DREAM3R wrote:

Beware, hes gonna start talking about god.

This should be interesting

How about when you get some poor girl pregnant because you can't resist your sexual urges. And don't even think about saying something like "we'll be careful, so that's not gona happen," because teen pregnancy is very common in America. Trust me a baby now would ruin your life. Or how about when you get a sexual disease because your too ingnorant to think about it. Having sex now just makes you another weak person in a world flooded by them already. Have some respect for you body, and the body of your gf if you love her.

That's a few but there are more.

Also on a side note I'd love to hear what you think are some pro's to having sex now.

If you've decided to have sex, haven't you had to spend time doing other things that are like sex but not actually sex? Where do you do that? :p

If you really wanna do it that bad, do it at home in a room where there aren't other people. It's fun when you have to try and be quiet.

Where have you had sex crow?

DREAM3R wrote:

Beware, hes gonna start talking about god.

I haven't had sex before, but we were doing other stuff and had to be extremely quiet :wink:

AlexMason wrote:

Having sex now just makes you another weak person in a world flooded by them already. Have some respect for you body, and the body of your gf if you love her.

I just giggled.

Just because you don't get it doesn't mean you have to justify it.

AlexMason wrote:

How about when you get some poor girl pregnant because you can't resist your sexual urges. And don't even think about saying something like "we'll be careful, so that's not gona happen," because teen pregnancy is very common in America. Trust me a baby now would ruin your life. Or how about when you get a sexual disease because your too ingnorant to think about it. Having sex now just makes you another weak person in a world flooded by them already. Have some respect for you body, and the body of your gf if you love her.

That's a few but there are more.

Also on a side note I'd love to hear what you think are some pro's to having sex now.

I'm going to go ahead and assume you're religious. You can continue to put sex up on your pedestal and think that not engaging in it is going to get you somewhere closer to god. But when it comes down to it in the end, sex is sex. We are born to live and reproduce. We're just a step up higher than animals, to be honest.

So to counter your endlessly stagnant argument against sex, I'd say you're a little too cautious with your decisions. Sure, you may have taken your sex-ed class a little to seriously, and they may have put some chill in your bones by naming all those terrible STD's. But truth is, as long as you are careful, and not careless, chances are you'll be in good shape. Don't go snooping around with girls you're unsure of, use a secure method of birth control, and you'll be fine.

I respect people's decisions to not have sex until so on a point. I think it's honorable, and sure.. kids are having sex too early, and too prematurely. But when crusaders like yourself go around preaching to everyone who decides to not follow your holy path of abstinence, it's a tad bit annoying. Keep your blasphemy to yourself, it's not even helping your cause.

:rofl:

DREAM3R wrote:

Where have you had sex crow?

Wouldn't you like to know? :p Haha.

Yes I would

DREAM3R wrote:

Yes I would

Yeah, and post some pics with your explanations.