I'm no girl so initial apologies for that.

But one thing you could sort out is your perception of relationships. Going out and chasing girls is probably the wrong way to go about it, you'll just be nervous and it doesn't work out. Best thing to focus on is your confidence. You'll need an appearance to go with that, for outside purposes just find a good casual look for yourself (isn't very pricey either).

Live life like you don't give a shit. But don't do anything stupid like take drugs and whatnot. You should be yourself and conjure up laughs and humour, at this age it's really easy especially. Just talk casually about things and it will flow, if it doesn't and you're putting in the effort... She's probably just too shy to talk to and you probably should lay off. It's all about being calm, cool and composed. You don't really need a girlfriend yet and most at this age usually don't work out.

Arshavin = awesome player ^^^^
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I don't use a phone and probably won't till i can drive or get a job so i'd just talk to her using the internet or something, is cheaper as well.