Dude. You are just me I feel exactly the same way and I'm looking forward to seeing some girls reply

You're 14, you're expecting way too much out of a girl the same/close to your age, trust me, what you're looking for is hard to find(very hard to find) and you'll only get hurt in the process.

The fact that you're looking for a girl is the mistake here. A relationship is often (not always, I know a lot of scumbags with girls) the sign of strength. When you have fixed your problems, your insecurities, your "flaws", and when you can be proud of who you are and the life that you lead, you will find girls attracted to you.

It's just how it works. Work on yourself for now

What that guy said

But also, girls are such bitches at this age. I'd know.
Don't let the fact that you don't have a girl make you feel lonely. It's actually better you don't for now, because girls, most of them, love a guy who is sweet, but who has never had a girlfriend before - it shows the girl you haven't just fallen for anyone in the past.

Good luck.

Be creative and take the initiative. Girls do not like guys who are not confident in most cases. Girls are not going to wait for you.

True dat.

I guess that is the mistake.


So you're saying girls will just flock to him?


Sure it is.


Anyways, my point is none of that matters (confidence, non-insecurites, egoism), if girls don't know you, amirite?

Don't know about you because i am extremely lonely and have been for months and months now, no friends....little family which you can only be with for so long. Myself i reckon having a girlfriend could make me happier and have something to actually wake up for instead and look forward to something for the first time in a long time.

You got it much easier than most people who like some girls. A lot of people claim they have a crush or have fallen for their friends which is risky buisness.

If she hasn't noticed you then i wouldn't count on waiting for her to make the first move. You have a couple of options,

1. Get the confidence and just ask her out upfront.
2. Try and get talking with her first to make sure your personalities are the same.
3. Once you get talking start to flirt a little, by then she should get the idea that you like her. And if she likes the attention then chances are good that she wouldn't mind going on a date or getting closer to you.

Choose whichever you want, you have nothing to lose if you ask her upfront, just be understanding with her and she may not mind talking to you more and decide if she actually likes you. Whatever you do don't hold it in otherwise it will get worse and worse.

Best of luck

Well, I think you're best bet, is to get to know a girl first. That way it will answer all your questions of if she's single, whether or not she's interested in you, and so on.

Now approaching a girl doesn't have to be random. Well, perhaps a little, but you can make that go away. Have some reason for going up to her. School related question, like do you know the homework for... then continue to make conversation. Get to know the girl first, and get comfortable with her. In order to tell if she is interested, flirt with her, and see if she flirts back. It is a pretty good way to tell if she is interested in you or not. Then attempt to ask her out.

Typically you have better luck if you are not obsessed with being in a relationship. If you are lonely and wanting to be with a girl without a certain girl in mind, then chances are you will fall in love with the idea of having a girl rather than the actual girl herself. If you are desperate it typically shows, and I find that is a major turn off with females. Confidence is key, and if you want something you just have to go for it. Usually the issue with approaching girls is that one thinks too much and never acts. In matters of the heart it is better to act rather than overanalyze.

i don't care about if a girl is hot or not

i like there personalllity

unfortunatly most grls don't seem to agree








i have only had 1 gf

you just got to talk to them and be flirty ask for there number become friends before something serious

Just be like "hey, whats up", whats the worst that can happen?

does that mean i'm going to be a loner for life? 0.o <-- because i cannot overcome any of those feats(no its not a typo) >.>

Self confidence has got to be one of the most important attributes you will need to possess to get a girl. Instead of being all nervous and worried that she might not like you, realize that she is one out of...billions of people literally and that you will have plenty of other times to try. Also, girls like a confident person I find. As I said before, be confident, and instead of cowering, go up to the girl and be all like "Hey bitch, spread your legs!" - I mean no... that's not right. Just say hi to her. "Hey, what's up?"

Holy shit that is funny XD

Yep, don't be disrespectful or cocky to them. Just crack the odd funny line and compliment them.

You do not need confidence to talk to a girl.

(Because the only time you need confidence is if you don't got anything to say.).

By the way, as for all the advice that go, say "Hey, what's up?" or say Hi/Hello.

Then the girl will just reply back.

Then that reduces back to the initial scenario, of coming up with something to say.

My best advice...Just be yourself. As simple as that. Don't try to say something clever, don't try to think of some kind of pickup line, just be yourself.

don't just start talking to her like you're looking for a fast gf. that's the only thing i can add here.