definitely, in most cultures anyway
Are you still a virgin if...
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try offering yourself as a sacrifice
if they turn you down you know your not a virgin, if they accept you, you know your a sacrificial virgin
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BJade wrote:
try offering yourself as a sacrifice
if they turn you down you know your not a virgin, if they accept you, you know your a sacrificial virgin
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no I am not
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I would yes, you are.
Historically, virginity, at least in a woman, was sought after when a couple were due to marry and probably start a family because it would mean the woman would not already be pregnant with another man's child. That attitude would have emerged at a time before modern contraception and when it was usual for the man to work to support the woman who then mostly raised the children.
Given the link with pregnancy in the above, the only thing that should count as losing one's virginity is penis in vagina sex. Of course, lesbians may then say that isn't fair and that dildo in vagina should count and gay guys could complain and say that penis in anus should count. Really, in a same sex situation, or with effective contraception, it is an outdated concept anyway. -
why do men care so much about a womans virginity
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Patriarchal ownership, purity culture
Calli wrote:
why do men care so much about a womans virginity
Their ego - being the first and only, not having anyone else being able come and say yeah I had that first -
honestly, most of them don't...
Calli wrote:
why do men care so much about a womans virginity
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In some cultures they do. If the woman is not virgin she cant get married
Calli wrote:
why do men care so much about a womans virginity
And yes they have someone check it -
Dracaufeu wrote:
In some cultures they do. If the woman is not virgin she cant get marriedAnd yes they have someone check itCalli wrote:
why do men care so much about a womans virginity
Assuming by "checking it" you mean checking that the hymen is intact. That is not a reliable indicator, though. The hymen can be broken by things other than sex. That also gives rise to girls seeking hymen repair. The whole things seems like a silly obsession and rather pointless. -
I agree with you 100%
Sean2001 wrote:
Assuming by "checking it" you mean checking that the hymen is intact. That is not a reliable indicator, though. The hymen can be broken by things other than sex. That also gives rise to girls seeking hymen repair. The whole things seems like a silly obsession and rather pointless.Dracaufeu wrote:
In some cultures they do. If the woman is not virgin she cant get marriedAnd yes they have someone check itCalli wrote:
why do men care so much about a womans virginity
Also I've read that the hymen can be torn or damaged with certain sports like horse back ride or dance -
i don’t think so i feel there needs to be multiple people involved to count as losing ur virginity
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Well, at least two
Isaac13 wrote:
i don’t think so i feel there needs to be multiple people involved to count as losing ur virginity
. Multiple may happen later on . I know what you mean Live for today -
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