On holiday I met a guy who I really liked - I only managed to see him for a couple of days and I was with my family - so I never got to send more than a few minutes alone with him. Nothing happened exactly but he was so nice I had a real crush on him. Thing is he's a lot older than me and lives far away. I don't even know why I keep thinking about him - but I've never had my heart speed up so much when I catch someones eye or if I get to talk to them one on one!! I know it sounds crazy and will probably come to nothing but ARGHHHH!!! WHY NOT!!!! *drrooop*
Older guy :S
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how old are you and how old is he?
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He's ...*grimace*...ten years older - but that's not HUGE right?? It's not 20 years! and I could contact if I wanted yes - but through a mutual friend
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10 years is fine, depending on your age.
one of my best mates, is 19 and his girlfriend is 43, but its sorta fine because he is 19 and nearly 20[CENTER] [/CENTER] -
Exactly what Kevin said. If you are 18 and he's 28, I don't personally see that as such a big deal. If you are 14 and he's 24... well, that's a bigger deal.
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Well, first of all, you say he lives far away and he's 10 years older. Could you really see yourself in a relationship with him? It doesn't seem like you've known him for that long, it seems like you have a crush/infatuation more than anything else, I would suggest you get over it to be honest. I mean we don't even know anything else about this guy? How old is he, do you know if he's married/in a relationship, do you know who he lives with, what his job is, etc. It seems a little awkward.