aww man what a case of bad timing eh? dont beat yourself up about it, but dont get ahead of yourself....just sit on the fence. if you are too neg it might show.

Awww man im sorry, that sucks. I know how you feel. Sadly only time will help you get over her, just dont make the same mistake I did, respect her decision. You will never forgive yourself otherwise. You may think now that she is "THE ONE" and I thought the same quite frankly, we all do when we experience love for the first time. We think that we will never feel the same about another person, trust me though, it passes, ive gone through it and come out the other side, after a few months you will feel alot better about everything. But at least you can hold your head up high and say that you put yourself out there, you can use what you learned in future relationships. Trust me, you will meet someone soon, and that person will be able to love you as much as you will love her.
Just have patience man, it will get easier in time. If you ever need to talk feel free to pm me. Good luck

aaahhh no good. sorry to hear that dude, but hey, are you that beat down by it or just a lil disappointed? girls can seem pretty amazing sometimes, but trust me...you will never know 'the one' untill youve spent your lives together...the future is too unpredictable for such finalities.

My advice to you now; take it on the chin, proccupy your mind with hobbies or whatever...just try your hardest not to sit about cause thats when the blues start creeping up on ya! Go and hang out with your friends, keep talking to her but for now dont hang out quite as much (you need to try and let things simmer down).

Oh and importantly...it can be hard to do but try not to dwell on her...cause then you draw up conclusions and such and it can make you get angry over theoretical situations and then the bitterness creeps in, etc.

Basically just keep it cool, dont let youreself get too upset, dont beat yourself up and get on...youll bounce back in no time.

Arrghhh, i was reading down and was so glad that it was sounding well. And totally sorry that it didn't turn out the way it was looking like it would. At least she understands the situation. Don't let your feelings grow for her because then things might turn bad. Give it some time and try talking to some other girls and see if you like any of them.

I used to like a girl for a while, then i moved away for a year and came back to where i used to live. And when i came back i was sort of into a different girl (and unfortunately still am)

Good luck with the journey ahead