Sex with my step sister...what should I do?

  • Sex with my step sister...what should I do?

    Okay, not going in to too much detail, my parents divorced when I was 16 and my dad remarrie when I was 18. The woman he married has a daughter who is only a year younger then me and is incredibly good looking (looks a hell of a lot like the pornstar Tori Black).

    We'd been quite close for a while and had a good laugh with eachother but then I joined the gym and put on just over a stone in muscle in just over a month thanks to a strict diet and gym routine.

    One time I was getting out the shower but forgot to bring a fresh towel in with me from the airing cupboard and seeing as my bedroom is right next to the bathroom I thought I could make a quick dash without anyone seeing me. Needless to say I was wrong lol. She ended catching me stark naked and seemed shocked in a good way.

    Soon after that she started flirting with me quite a lot when nobody else was around and loved touching me. I didn't think anything of it really as I just thought it was a bit of playfulness....but things changed in September.

    I'm in my second year at uni and she just started her first year at the same uni. I looked after her during freshers week but she ended up getting drunk one night (even more then me). We went back to my uni student house and I put her to bed on the sofa and thought that was that. I ended up waking halfway through the night with her somehow of having stripped most of her clothes off (leaving just her french knickers on) and she'd made her way in to my bed.

    I'm pretty sure she was asleep at this point but her hand had strayed a little south for my liking and was half way in to my boxers so I tried to pull it out without waking her up. I failed miserably, she woke up and accused me of trying to make her give me a handjob in her sleep. I thought she was deadly serious but then she chuckled, ended up kissing me without warning. One thing led to another and we ended up having sex for almost 3 hours.

    That was almost 3 months ago now and we've had sex so many more times since then in all the craziest places you can imagine....we even had sex in the car on the way back to my dad and her mums house for xmas when we got stuck in the snow and ended up spending the night in the car. Don't get me wrong, I think she looks incredible and she gives the best sex Ive ever had and I know it's not illegal in the uk but there's a slight problem...

    ...a couple nights ago we went to a house party of a mate of mine and me and my step sister ended up having sex in the parents bedroom. Someone walked in and saw my face but my step sister managed to hide hers quickly. I've talked to the person who walked in and I'm pretty sure they think it was my sister.

    Should deny everything and say it was just some random girl, say I don't remember cos I was so drunk or admit everything and tell everyone that me and my step sister are seeing eachother?

    I don't really know what peoples social views are on relationships with step-siblings. Any views/opinions are greatly appriciated. Thanks..
  • Re: Sex with my step sister...what should I do?

    Having no step-siblings myself I'm afraid I can't directly empathise. It's annoying because genetically there's no reason at all why you can't be with her, the fact that you know her at all is via the coincidence of your father falling in love with her mother. Nonetheless, I can imagine it would be a pretty bizarre family situation for your dad and her mum if they couldn't handle it.

    Have you talked to your step-sister about this?
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    @Esmo - no. i haven't brought it up with her. we do everything a bf and gf do apart from actually discuss the subject of what others would think. i dont know whether shes just nervous about telling people in case they think we're strange or whether shes just interested in being with me for the sex. by her own words im the only guy who's ever made her orgasm on a regular basis (i even made her squirt one time).
    tbh i dont think my dad and her mum would deal with it too well either. im a bit concerned all my mates and all of her mates would take it....
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    I'm with Esmo on this. It's one of those situations where people automatically recoil and go "ZOMG! Incest!" But then when you actually take the time to think about it, I can't think of anything at all wrong with what you are doing. Obviously, the first thing you need to do is to talk to her and find out exactly what her feelings on the whole matter are. If she's not interested in a relationship with you, then the entire thing is a moot point. If she IS interested in a relationship with you, then the two of you are going to have to come out to your parents and friends. It's not a question of 'if', it's just a question of 'when." And in this kind of situation, as you are already finding out, it's better to tell people before getting caught rather than vice versa.
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    rickrickroo wrote:

    @Esmo - no. i haven't brought it up with her. we do everything a bf and gf do apart from actually discuss the subject of what others would think. i dont know whether shes just nervous about telling people in case they think we're strange or whether shes just interested in being with me for the sex. by her own words im the only guy who's ever made her orgasm on a regular basis (i even made her squirt one time).
    tbh i dont think my dad and her mum would deal with it too well either. im a bit concerned all my mates and all of her mates would take it....

    Talk to her. I think that'll help a lot more.
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    Some people have different views on this kind of thing. I have a step brother, and though he's good looking I would never consider anything like this with him. Same if it were my stop cousin, to me they're like blood relatives and I couldn't find myself able to do anything sexual with them. It would just feel wrong to me. I'm not saying anything against you by the way, that's just how it would be for me.
    But other people are different, and if you do it, you do it. There's nothing legally wrong with it, but for some people morally wrong (I have no opinion). What you do have to do is discuss things with you and her. Ask her if it's for sex, or what. I mean you two should really be on the same page as each other if you're having sex so often, and in such risky places.

    It's obvious some people won't take that kind of news well, parents as well as friends. You just have to talk to her on what you both want to do. Come clean, or cover it up. If you're covering it up, try to have sex in private places from now on :rolleyes: less chance at getting caught.
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    Right, you being in a relationship with her is totally fine in my own mind. Unsure how others would see it though. Best thing to do is talk to her about what is going to happen because sooner or later people are going to have to know. You can't keep a relationship a secret for long.
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  • Re: Sex with my step sister...what should I do?

    Lol I like how you started off with "Okay, not going in to too much detail" but then were extremely detailed about what happened lol.

    I'd say keep having sex with her. Don't date her though or let anyone know you guys are doing that, especially your family. But good for you man!!