i'm a 17 year old boy, i've had a few girlfriends and also a recurring problem: I get boners too easily. i'm not a virgin and i masturbate at least once a day. Any advice?
Help! I get boners too easily
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Masturbate more?
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Boners are a good thing, would you rather get boners more often or not get them at all?
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DomGTR wrote:
Boners are a good thing, would you rather get boners more often or not get them at all?
good point, but its really embarassing when i have one when i'm only making out with my gf -
Don't be embarrassed, it shows you are attracted to her Does she mind?
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Dude, getting a boner while you're making out is actually pretty normal. Every guy I've kissed gets one xD It's a little weird depending on how long you've been WITH the person, but my boyfriend and I took a while before we got to making out so it wasn't so awkward. Having no penis, I'm not really sure how to help with this except to maybe just let your girl know you really can't help it XD It just happens, man.
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TotallyJinxed wrote:
well like i said earlier, its been a recurring problem. none of my past girlfriends have ever been vocal about it, but it seems like they've been put off by it.
That's weird...
If they are older then 12 they should know it's normal and expected.
Maybe they feel pressured they have to do something with it?
It may be the reason, if they feel like when you get boner you have to have sex or something. -
TotallyJinxed wrote:
i'm a 17 year old boy, i've had a few girlfriends and also a recurring problem: I get boners too easily. i'm not a virgin and i masturbate at least once a day. Any advice?
It's normal.
Crossfire wrote:
Masturbate more?
That wouldn't necessarily help...most guys are still able to get erections even after they've reached their daily masturbation limit.
TotallyJinxed wrote:
well like i said earlier, its been a recurring problem. none of my past girlfriends have ever been vocal about it, but it seems like they've been put off by it.
If they are really put off by it, they're stupid.
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Try using something to cool it down?
i.e. icing it =/
or thinking about something gross. -
I think your girlfriends need to get with the program and realize it's ok that you get a boner when you make out. It's quite normal, and boners are natural anyway.
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I think its a normal thing when your younger, everybody gets them, if she has a problem then she needs to learn about how human sexuality works.
But I do know that it can be annoying, when I was younger I used to get annoyed at the exact same thing, but I dont get it anymore at all so its not a problem, I think most guys get over it[CENTER] [/CENTER]
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