What are some ways to stop masturbating?

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      cazoofoo wrote:

      Ignore this post, he's just a troll.


      I kinda figured. But actually, I have been considering chemical castration ever since I broke up with my ex...it seems far less dangerous than regular castration. And yeah...I'd NEVER do it myself though some days I keep thinking about just taking a blade and chopping them off. But that would probably be suicide because I'd bleed to death. Regular castration=no, because that would mean I would have the voice of Justin Bieber.

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      I seriously would go against any castration whatsoever, because that is a big thing.
      And I don't think you can just 'become' asexual. It's more of a change of mindsets, you have to realize and accept that you don't desire anything sexual whatsoever, and not act upon these urges.
      i'm probably not the best to explain this.

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      Hipster wrote:

      I seriously would go against any castration whatsoever, because that is a big thing.
      And I don't think you can just 'become' asexual. It's more of a change of mindsets, you have to realize and accept that you don't desire anything sexual whatsoever, and not act upon these urges.
      i'm probably not the best to explain this.


      It is a big thing, but it's a big thing that could positively affect my life.

      And well, I'm desperately trying to. I'm trying to quit masterbating and not think of anything sexual. But I can't resist the urges at times :(.

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      That whole involuntarily celibate thing, are you saying that you think people aren't attracted to you? That's what I think, and it just means you're a little insecure. There's no need to go through all of this, you're going through a phase that all teens go thru. You feel really insecure and have bad thoughts about it. And the fact that you were in a relationship means that someone was attracted to you, not to mention people who might have crushes on you, even your friends, they're attracted to you, maybe not sexually but they are attracted to you as a person, that's why they're your friends. And you cant make yourself asexual, its impossible. You have to be born that way. I really think you should speak to your parents or an adult at school or your doctor. Don't do anything drastic.

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      Hipster wrote:

      The easiest thing you can do is just keep yourself occupied whenever you feel an urge. Play music, play games, go and eat something, whatever. Just don't touch your dick.
      And believe me, it's much more manageable after about 10 days.


      Unnecessary.

      OP, by all means, listen to music, play games, have a snack. But like I already said, frequent masturbation isn't a problem unless it starts to preclude everything else in your life. Keep doing it and don't worry about it.

      Not masturbating (for guys, anyway) isn't good for your prostate and will cause you to have wet dreams consisting of very foul, sticky and rancid semen. Regular orgasms are believed to help lower blood pressure, reduce stress and even combat depression.

      Also, not masturbating won't help you become asexual, it'll just cause you to become even more sexually frustrated than you already are. Asexuality isn't something you can just "choose" to be (or train yourself to become) just like people can't/don't choose to be straight or gay.

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      HarleyTheGamerDude wrote:

      Thanks guys and the reason I find it so disgusting is because I'm trying to become asexual. I know a lot of asexuals masturbate but typically they have no sexual drive accompanying it. I still do, unfortunately.


      You have NO idea how MAD that made me. You CANT CHOOSE to become asexual. It's a sexual orientation just like all the others. It's part of who you are you cant just choose it.

      fhbfbdskjfbkdsjbfdkjfbkjdbfkjsddkjfbdsjf I strongly DISLIKE people that make those sort of comments, considering IAM ASEXUAL. Sorry just pisses me off, when I'd give pretty much anything to be sexual.

      But however, you can become celibate. Which means while you may still feel sexual attraction, you do not act on it. What-so-ever. HOWEVER, asexual means you don't experience the sexual attraction. And yes many people who are ace do masturbate.

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      HarleyTheGamerDude wrote:

      I kinda figured. But actually, I have been considering chemical castration ever since I broke up with my ex...it seems far less dangerous than regular castration. And yeah...I'd NEVER do it myself though some days I keep thinking about just taking a blade and chopping them off. But that would probably be suicide because I'd bleed to death. Regular castration=no, because that would mean I would have the voice of Justin Bieber.


      But why do you want to be asexual?
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      cazoofoo wrote:

      But why do you want to be asexual?


      He explained it right here.

      HarleyTheGamerDude wrote:

      To answer why I want to become asexual- I suffer from involuntary celibacy. It'd be hard for me to attract anyone...and I don't want to spend the rest of my life worrying about not having sex/dying a virgin. Being asexual would mean that I have no sex drive and therefore wouldn't be worried about it all that much. And although I couldn't just turn asexual- there ARE ways I could eliminate my sex drive but it'd be kindy risky. :/


      I hate bringing this up again, but being asexual only means you don't feel sexual attraction. SOME asexuals have sex drives including me. I have a sex drive, but I just don't feel a desire to have SEX. I still masturbate here and there like when I'm PMSing and horny...it has nothing to do with being asexual.

      And its not as if being asexual would make you feel good about not having sex! Sometimes you feel really left out knowing that you most likely aren't going to experience it. I still want to have sex though...its like rocky road ice cream. I havent tried it but it sounds good so why not?

      Dont try to get rid of your sex drive. Just take it easy. Stop feeling gulity about jerking off because that just makes it a whole cycle of guilt-lust-confusion and trust me, its much easier to concentrate on your emotional sexuality than what your hands do inside your pants.
      Hope is like a butterfly, it can be killed with one quick movement.

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      I'm completely in favour of everyone having their own opinion but it's not discussting and telling someone it is, isn't good for them, everyone must lead their own lives and not be blinded by the silly myths that something like this is bad, you're a teenager you will get urges and you will have to "sort them out" one way or another you can ask any doctor and they will tell you it's normal, do as you wish but dont be ashamed of which you do because both paths are healthy choices and I can assure you that me being a complete stranger know what you're going through, last year I was 13 and just like you and then I realised it's human nature and noone will judge you for what you do and you shouldn't judge yourself. Take my word for it, follow you're instincts, if yur body wants something give it, it because if you're body wants it then it's natural

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      icy wrote:

      He explained it right here.



      I hate bringing this up again, but being asexual only means you don't feel sexual attraction. SOME asexuals have sex drives including me. I have a sex drive, but I just don't feel a desire to have SEX. I still masturbate here and there like when I'm PMSing and horny...it has nothing to do with being asexual.

      And its not as if being asexual would make you feel good about not having sex! Sometimes you feel really left out knowing that you most likely aren't going to experience it. I still want to have sex though...its like rocky road ice cream. I havent tried it but it sounds good so why not?

      Dont try to get rid of your sex drive. Just take it easy. Stop feeling gulity about jerking off because that just makes it a whole cycle of guilt-lust-confusion and trust me, its much easier to concentrate on your emotional sexuality than what your hands do inside your pants.


      ^^ Hahaa that made me laugh
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      Dr John Harvey Kellogg (of porn flakes fame), the high priest of circumcision in the US, had a 100% successful "cure" for masturbation and advocated circumcision for pubescent boys and girls to stop masturbation: "A remedy which is almost always successful in small boys is circumcision..... The operation should be performed by a surgeon without administering an anæsthetic, as the brief pain attending the operation will have a salutary effect upon the mind, especially if it be connected with the idea of punishment... In females, the author has found the application of pure carbolic acid to the clitoris an excellent means of allaying the abnormal excitement"