I know this will sound like your average, depressed girl 'i hate my body' type rant but i really just wanted to ask guys honestly how they feel about this topic.
In my experience it seems that all the guys i know only go for girls with perfect bodies and seem to expect us all to have them, its just so much pressure to be a certain way. The guys I know are so harsh about girls that dont look like supermodels its just horrible. Im a UK 10/12 so im not fat but I cant help feeling depressed around all my perfect, skinny, pretty friends and it just makes me hate the way i am even more.
And do guys care if you have big boobs or not? I know some say small boobs are ok but what if theyre really small, cos guys can be so harsh about bodies and that it just really worries me and i have little confidence when it comes to showing my body in front of people.
What I really want to know is how can you win; guys are originally attracted to girls in a sexual kindve way before getting to know them or like them (if they do), so how can you get a guy to like you if he doesnt find you attractive in the first place because youre not 'perfect'?? does it really matter at all?:confused:
In my experience it seems that all the guys i know only go for girls with perfect bodies and seem to expect us all to have them, its just so much pressure to be a certain way. The guys I know are so harsh about girls that dont look like supermodels its just horrible. Im a UK 10/12 so im not fat but I cant help feeling depressed around all my perfect, skinny, pretty friends and it just makes me hate the way i am even more.
And do guys care if you have big boobs or not? I know some say small boobs are ok but what if theyre really small, cos guys can be so harsh about bodies and that it just really worries me and i have little confidence when it comes to showing my body in front of people.
What I really want to know is how can you win; guys are originally attracted to girls in a sexual kindve way before getting to know them or like them (if they do), so how can you get a guy to like you if he doesnt find you attractive in the first place because youre not 'perfect'?? does it really matter at all?:confused:
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