Hey guys, this is a situation that has been happening, I started having sex with best friend, but see the thing is, we are both with other people. I know its wrong but we are just fooling around, so I wanted to know if you guys think that I should cut it off with him? And if do you think that we can still remain friends without it seeming awkward? Do you people think that sex with best friend is wrong? Is it wrong to sleep with your best friend?
Sex with best friend?
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This is a very rough situation that you have gotten yourself into. I think that if you love the person that you are already with then you should cut things off with this other guy, if on the other hand you weren't happy in your current relationship and neither was this other guy maybe it is time for the two of you to move on together. Sex with best friend is okay but you can't just be dating another person and have sex with other.
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I would never have sex with best friend! Besides the fact that you are both with other people, having intimate relationships with good friends never seems to work out and then you will lose a good friend that you could have depended on for more than just sex. I think that you need to break it off with you best friend and hope that you can salvage your friendship.
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Thanks for the response guys, I really appreciate it. I think I will end things but I think it has got to the point where he is actaully fallen for me. The other day he said that he might love me and not just as a friend anymore, holy crap. I think I messed it up. Having sex with best friend could be a big mistake for me.
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From my own personal experience I think it is bad to have sex with best friends, I have been there done it and I lost my best-est friend either. I think if your friendship doesn't mean to much then why not? If it does then I wouldn't risk it to be honest.
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Sometimes it does not always end up badly. I think it depends on the strength of your friendship. I slept with my best friend for two months while we were both dating other people and it was one of the best things I ever did. I realized that the relationship I was in must not have been as great as I thought it was or I would not have wanted to be with someone else. My friend and I ended our affair simply because it wasn’t working for either of us and we are still best friends. We talk and hang out everyday.
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Exactly if you een have a thought in your mind that you think someone would treat you better than the person your with i would say it is fine.
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I totally agree with hali. It certainly happens and sometimes becomes one of the best pleasures of life.
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i had a one night stand with my best mate (lad) and it was soooooooo good lolmy neck my back (lick it)
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I think one should indulge into sex with his/her best friend only when u really love the person.Otherwise it may ruin the friendship.But if ur not too serious about the friendship then i think having sex is fine.
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If you have sex with your bestfriend, you might end up ruining your friendship or have sex often hahaha! If you think you're fine with it then go on with the flow. I personally think that sex is sacred and should only be done with the ones you love. It's not something that you do just to have fun with anybody.
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Oh great!!! I mean, you are cheating on your bf/gf and so is that other person!
How do you feel about it? You like to cheat?
Would you like to be cheated upon?
Is it purely for physical reasons that you are sleeping with your best friend?
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I believe if I ever sleep with anybody, if i ever let any1 have my body, i would surely love him alot and he should love me more and if some1 asks me can i spend my whole life wid tht guy, i would say YES without hesitating.
So if all these go with you, no it aint wrong, but i doubt its the case anyhow! -
It is not okay to have sex with your best friend if you don't love your best friend. You should only have sex when you're married or if you're liberated, at least with someone you love and affectionate with and who also loves you back. Sex isn't a casual activity.
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Sex with best friend may not be a casual activity but it is quite enjoyable and there are no rules that being in love has to play a factor in it. I am not saying one should just go sleeping with everyone they encounter; my point is you do not have to be in love in with someone in order to engage in sex or intimate relations with them. In a case such as this I would hope you love your best friend as most people do.
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i think it is ok if u think it ok.
if u r not feeling good , u should leave him -
Hell ya
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It may be good for a while, but it will lead to complications, and in the worst case scenario the loss of the friendship. It would be easier to break it off as soon as possible, as nicely as possible...
Good luck anyway -
best friend or not, i feel there is no excuse for cheating
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you need to do whats good for you lol.
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