basically no guy that i have ever asked out has said yes.. and the only attention i get from boys is from the wrong ones people always tell me i am 'beautiful' and that they 'love my hair, its stunning' (not blowing my own trumpet but i thought i should be honest). so i dont understand why boys never like me more than a friend. i know that not every boy is going to like me like that, but just one decent boy is all i am asking! i look older than i am which is 14 but people have thought that i am 16/17. i have started to think that maybe i am not skinny enough(i have always wanted to be skinnier) as this boy keeps calling me fat 'for a laugh' and he is 'only joking' but i am beginning to think he means it. i am a size 10 but a 12 in skinny jeans.. (god i feel fat writing that, so dont judge) so i have gone on a diet to see how that works out! basically what i want to know is, lads, am i doing anything wrong?! and what do you find attractive in a girl? physically and personality wise?!? also if anyone knows a good way to meet lads out of school that would be greatly appreciated! :blush: thanks