Alan21 wrote:
xkneecole wrote:
Hey, I bet you're saying that to all of the women who accidentally miscarry too. I bet this baby would be extremely happy growing up and living on welfare because her mom never got the chance to go to college, or even graduate high school. Adoption is always an option, a stupid one. The adoption system is not one you want a "precious gift" stuck in. Passed around from home to home, never being settled, sometimes abused.
Getting an abortion isn't like sticking a knife in your vagina and brutally murdering a child. It's removing the liner of your uterus so you miscarry. The word "kill" is so harsh and if that were the case, all females who get abortions would be charged with homicide.
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Ok, sorry i called you a slut in private. it wasn't nice of me to do that and to make it public is not something i would do. I don't care what decisions YOU have made for yourself. what i care about is the "advice" you have given to someone else on here. it is my opinion that it is ill-advised and comes from someone who hasn’t made very good decisions. what i believe is that every decision a person makes has some effect on another person, whether it's good or bad. i think your decision to offer poor advice based on what YOU would do basically stinks. the best advice comes from someone who learns from their mistakes. It is my opinion that your advice in offering an option to delete the consequence of a mistake, i.e., kill an unborn baby, is wrong. that is unfortunate but too common. it is also my “opinion” that wise advice based on someone’s own bad decisions is not just an “opinion" but may be useful to someone who asks for it. my advice to the girl is to go ahead and give birth to the baby and give it up for adoption to someone who will take care of it and who will love it and consider it a gift from God. this is of course only my opinion, and comes from the stupid decisions i've made in MY life. :):):)
I'm assuming with the name Alan you're a male and you have never had to experience the fear and regret you feel once you realize you're pregnant. I don't expect you to, but as a male, you shouldn't offer a woman advice on how to handle her pregnancy if, by your standards stated above, you haven't experienced it yourself. Adoption would be a beautiful solution if it was actually realistic.
Why am I not allowed to tell the girl what I would do? That's what advice is. Of course I have my best interest in mind, therefore I have her best interest in mind. I don't expect a male to understand any of this because he isn't ever forced to face the consequences of his bad decisions in the bedroom.
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