Some advice?

Lost · Oct 10th 2006, 4:45am

Hello, all.

I have a question for all of you.

There is this one guy I know though a volunteer organization. We are both really good friends, are interested in the same things, and are both single. I really like him, and he flirts with me all the time (so I'm not sure if it's in a friendly way or not). The only problem I can really see, is that I am 15, while he is 20.

I know that this is a pretty big age difference when you are younger (less so when you reach adulthood), and I just don't know what to do with this situation.

I've never been interested in High School aged guys because of their complete immaturity, and have always been more comfortable around older people. But I just don't know what to do.

Does anyone have any suggestions at all? Or comments?

Thank-you, everyone.

Mayank · Oct 10th 2006, 3:44pm

I don't think that you can judge "Love" due to age difference. It will be very rude to do that. I guess that if you love the person, you should go for it dis regarding the fact that he is 20 and you are 15.
Is that guy immature?

Luvie · Oct 10th 2006, 7:04pm

I would stay friend for next 2 or 3 years 1st, don't want him in jail do you? You can be just really close friends with no BF/GF action.

mopsymog · Oct 10th 2006, 8:50pm

i agree with mayank but what luvie is saying also makes sense. really what you think is best probably is. i know it seems really wierd about the ages difference at the moment but you will forget that. if you really like him that much go for it

dazy · Oct 16th 2006, 2:27pm

Hi,
Age is definitely not a important factor in case of love.He is 5 yrs older than you.So what?this is not a so big gap! The guys with same age ,sometimes can not be dependable.Matured guys are perfect for being a true life partner.

XkizoFreniaC · Dec 18th 2006, 4:35am

Nothing wrong with falling for somebody older. I've seen girls date men twice their age. But older does not mean more mature. There are teens with mature outlooks and "men" who acts and thinks like boys. Check-out a 20 year old man flirting with a 15 year old girl, what does it tell you?

jess · Dec 19th 2006, 4:09pm

You are thinking of getting yourself into what has the potential to become a destructive situation. I would try and keep away from him all together or keep your relationship strictly platonic until you are of legal age. Not only do you need to think of yourself and what it may do to your life but you must also think of his life because if things go bad his life will be forever ruined not just temporarily.

idontcare · Dec 26th 2006, 12:35am

who really cares about age??? I mean if you love someone you should be able to show it, no matter what...!

Mayor · Dec 28th 2006, 3:12pm

I agree 200%

Love is not a show off !!! Remember it

hydra · Jan 6th 2007, 9:49am

Well, a 5 year difference is pretty big when 15 year old girl. It's perfectly ok for a 15 yr old boy to get his loads off to a 20 yr old woman. But a 15-yr old girl is usually more emotionally attached to a relationship while a 20 yr old man maybe only trying to exploit the naiveté of a young girl.

monika · Jan 6th 2007, 6:11pm

at this age of 15 it is not a love affair but it is the curiocity of sex. u can keep it as friendship but do not go deep into sexual affairs till u attain ur age to 20

paintball_slander · Jan 13th 2007, 1:51am

one word you should talk with you from this form and that is jailbate...............
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