this is a akward question but when your born like that how does it work. are you born with a penis and big boobs or a vagina and no boobs?

Ask me again when you learn how to speak English.

Yeah, you're not transsexual. You're intersex (that's a more polite word for hermaphrodite.)

Transsexual = change your sex
Intersex = born with both male and female parts

It depends on the guy. Some guys are more open minded than others. What about your body itself? Is your body mostly male or mostly female? What gender do you consider yourself?

You might try going out with a bi/pan guy, since they're into both.