Lack of social life :/

    • Lack of social life :/

      Hi everybody ! I feel so depressed and lonely . I don't have social life , i have a few friends but i think they don't understand me and that's why i feel so lonely. I live in a very beautiful city and we have sea , beaches , disco and bars , so much people in this city but that can't help me . I'm looking for someone who understands me , tries to help me , talks to me , helps me at least tries these .. I don't going out i'm always at home and that makes me feel depressed :( I'm new in this forum and i'm here because of these reasons . I hope someone can help me what should i do ? :(
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      The best way to combat this is the hardest: Stop staying at home! And I realize that is difficult to do, but you have to push yourself a little bit out of your comfort zone. Talk with your friends more, and try to make new ones. The only way you can fight your own loneliness is by trying to make yourself a better person.

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      Look I'm kinda in your same position. I'm 17, about to be a senior. I live in a town of 17,000 people (small town). It's not that I can't be social, I choose not to be. I sit at home most of the time and play Xbox. Do I care? Hell no. Don't let being socially awkward put you into a depression forum. Hell man, if you want someone to talk to, PM me on this website. Just wait until you're in college (if you're not already in college), because once you move away from your highschool, you won't give a shit about what happened in the past.
      But if you really want to socialize now: invite the few friends you do have and go chill at a park or a club. If you aren't old enough to get in, try it anyways! It makes a good story.
      By the way, the fact you have only a few friends doesn't mean you're not good at making friends, you're just picky. I have only a few friends too. Mainly because I hate everybody else's fucking guts! Nothing wrong with it. Any questions just PM me. I'll be happy to talk.
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      Just know that friends are not everything. The friends you do have, cherish them, just because they don't understand you, doesn't mean they don't care. Never lose faith because I love you and so does God. :). Since you live around beaches.and things like that try to ease your mind by going down by the beaches and relaxing. It will all. Be OK :D
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      Hipster wrote:

      The best way to combat this is the hardest: Stop staying at home! And I realize that is difficult to do, but you have to push yourself a little bit out of your comfort zone. Talk with your friends more, and try to make new ones. The only way you can fight your own loneliness is by trying to make yourself a better person.


      Fuck yourself hipster
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      Im in the same position. I always see pictures of my friends hanging together, going to the movies, mall, getting food , going to the each & etc and I just sit here in my bedroom on my computer. Yeah, it's enteraining but it also gets boring. I really expected my summer to be more fun filled but its not and it's coming to an end. So I guess I'll just have to cope with it and hope next years a better summer
      *Alex379*
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      Look man, I get what you're saying. Everybody has friends that they have fun with, but otherwise don't do much in the way of closeness. A lot of the time, you won't be able to find people like that, ever. But the only way to find out if there is someone like this is to go out, and test the waters. You won't find any friends sitting around.

      Or, if there really is no one-- well, you're here. You could talk to this whole forum about your problems, if you wanted to. I'm always open if you want to talk.
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      Go to the discos, bars and beaches and try find some people with common interests. Sitting indoors will get you nowhere.
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      Hello, please talk to me, i want to supportyou

      Im just about going through the same thing as you are. i Have friends, i can be around them, yet i can feel weired and strange around them and i dont really have a friend who sticks out like a sore thumb if i really really felt like i was in one of them timez and moments if i needed one, please reply id love to hear back.

      Cheers.