So, I'm slowly pushing away some of the friends I have, because they're mean to me and don't treat me right. The people who DO treat me right, and actually care about me a lot are 16-18. (I know this makes me sound stupid, but I'm mature for my age, and people often mistake me for my 16 year old sister's older sister, around 18 or 19 in age.)
Most of these people would be bad influences, if I actually cared about peer-pressure, but I don't. They drink, smoke, dip, and I've tried everything but dip (which smells bad, so I won't) and it was all disgusting, and I already know I won't do it.
I'm also a lesbian, so I won't be getting pregnant any time soon. (Haha.)
The thing is, they all, really, really care about me, and notice when I'm having a bad day (even when I try to hide it, and nobody else sees), they genuinely care about me and make the effort to be my friend, and actually give back what they take.
Also, it might make a difference to say; I am EXTREMELY weird. Like, schizotypal or developing-schizophrenic kind of weird, no exaggaration. My new friends don't have a problem with my weirdness, and my olds ones did. (Some even treated me like crap around their other friends, or ignored me, but were friends iwth me when we were alone.)
P.S: I know for a fact that I'm a lesbian, and i've known since I was 8 years old.
My questions are: Does it sound like a good idea to be friends with these new people? Also: If I don't give in to peer-pressure (which I wouldn't ever do, and never have, because I don't CARE) what are the reasons against being their friend?
Most of these people would be bad influences, if I actually cared about peer-pressure, but I don't. They drink, smoke, dip, and I've tried everything but dip (which smells bad, so I won't) and it was all disgusting, and I already know I won't do it.
I'm also a lesbian, so I won't be getting pregnant any time soon. (Haha.)
The thing is, they all, really, really care about me, and notice when I'm having a bad day (even when I try to hide it, and nobody else sees), they genuinely care about me and make the effort to be my friend, and actually give back what they take.
Also, it might make a difference to say; I am EXTREMELY weird. Like, schizotypal or developing-schizophrenic kind of weird, no exaggaration. My new friends don't have a problem with my weirdness, and my olds ones did. (Some even treated me like crap around their other friends, or ignored me, but were friends iwth me when we were alone.)
P.S: I know for a fact that I'm a lesbian, and i've known since I was 8 years old.
My questions are: Does it sound like a good idea to be friends with these new people? Also: If I don't give in to peer-pressure (which I wouldn't ever do, and never have, because I don't CARE) what are the reasons against being their friend?