Well, to me...I'd feel like a crappy friend if I tried to go behind my friend's back and try to get their guy.
However, with ex's, I think if I had only been with a guy for a short while and then we broke up mutually, and my friend confessed that she'd liked him for a while and he's taken an interest in her, I'd probably be okay with it. If we had a lot of history, and the break-up was bad however, I don't think I'd be cool with it. Seeing my friend with him all the time is just a constant reminder of how bad things were between us in the past. It'd just be plain awkward!
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I think liking your friend's girlfriend is off limits. Try being put in their shoes. You wouldn't like it if your friend did that to you.
With ex's however, I think thats okay. They broke so they cant be mad at you for liing the person. They should understand that they last their chance and it's your turn now.
P.S I would frist tell my friend about it before going ahead
Liking your friend's boyfriend or girlfriend ..
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I don't think that we are able to control are feeling for someone ..But If we do have feelings for friend's boyfriend/girlfriend , I find it ok as long as we don't try to have something with friend's boyfriend/girlfriend ..
Liking friend's ex-girlfriend/boyfriend...
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I think it's okay as long as we don't rub it and mention it a lot to our friend..
She/He had her/his chance ..It didn't work out ..So it's his/her time to step away ...
If you are close friends with this person, then they're totally off limits. If y'all are friends, but don't hang out that much, then I can see maybe going out with their ex boyfriend. But for me personally, it depends on which ex boyfriend. Liking their current boyfriend is a never.
It can happen to anyone its just how you act on the feelings if you try & take their bf or gf away that's not ok. If you keep it to yourself its okay.
& dating a friends x make sure its ok with the friend
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It can happen to anyone its just how you act on the feelings if you try & take their bf or gf away that's not ok. If you keep it to yourself its okay.
& dating a friends x make sure its ok with the friend
Liking them doesn't matter, acting on it is what matters; imagine how they'd feel if you did act on it, and if you DON'T care, are they really even your friend?