Then try to talk with your parents. Express your thoughts and feelings.

My parents have always been the way you're describing yours. Honestly, the best solution I've found is to play it their way for a while and not let it bother you, and then slowly ease them into giving you more freedom again. Especially with the clothes and music issue. Just dress how they see "appropriate" for a little while and then slowly work in more of what you like. Music is easy to hide, so just don't let them see or hear music they wouldn't approve of. I know it can get annoying and sometimes it will feel unbearable, but sometimes parents act irrationally and its just better to circumvent the extra arguments and let them think they're getting their way when they're really not. Hang in there, girl.

Just do your best to please them. Get good grades, help around the house. That sort of thing.

Try to do the right thing by them or what they think is right. Parents have diffrent ways of showing love. Hang in there God loves you and so do I :):D

Never had this problem. My mom actually gives me condoms.

>implying that anyone on this forum gives a shit about you or your life