Why Do I Feel Like This :(?

    • Why Do I Feel Like This :(?

      I have this friend that I love to be around. I feel that he is my bestest friend but I don't know does he feel this way about me, but that's not why I am writing.

      The problem is that I seen him yesterday for the first time since May. I usually get over excited when I know I am going to see him, which I did yesterday, and when I set eyes on him I just feel like I could hug him. :'). But when I set eyes on him yesterday my automatic reaction was that he was like all my other friends but I still felt like I wanted to hug him but "I couldn't show it" or "express it" in my head. I feel like as if almost I don't like him anymore as a friend (but I still do), like seriously, I must be losing it. What the hell is going on, a mid-teen crisis (LOL)?

      I don't know is it my hormones am I losing it :lana:? :(. (I don't think I'm losing it I think it is over-reacting. Is it?).
      Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks. :).
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      Fucklife wrote:

      Sry but it's a tricky subject. We don't really know what's happened between you two so it's hard to give you some advice.
      You haven't seen each other in a while, so maybe you're drifting apart... I don't know.

      I don't think we are drifting apart. For the last 2 years we have seen each other every 4-6 months at a time we are still good friends and I have feelings, deep feelings for this boy. Yes in a way sexually but more so friendship wise. I feel 95% friends with him compared to last week where I felt about 5% friends with him. Now that 5% between the 95% and 100% is bugging the s*it out of me. P.S.: When he logs into Facebook now I don't get all over excited :fangirl: (litrally I used to do this) like I used to . I 'd get all excited because of the fact I haven't been talking to him in about 3 months but now only after 2 weeks I feel like he's just like a normal person in my life not the same boy I used to have deep feelings for. Previously after 2 weeks I'd get over excited even though I would've only seen him 2 weeks ago. I still have strong feelings for him but there not as they used to be. So any help? Please?
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      In my opinion guys are dumb. (Sorry boys xD) But they are! They have no clue.. I mean, I've been in your situation SO many times! In fact, I currently am!! I thought I was getting over him, thought I was finally beginning to get over my jealousy but then he turns around and starts flirting with my friends! And guess what he's finally admitted? He's trying to make me jealous xD No but seriously, I think you should tell him.. Strong feelings, faint feelings.. still feelings right? Go for it, start talking to him again! Idk, do something:P
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      TaraWara<3 wrote:

      In my opinion guys are dumb. (Sorry boys xD) But they are! They have no clue.. I mean, I've been in your situation SO many times! In fact, I currently am!! I thought I was getting over him, thought I was finally beginning to get over my jealousy but then he turns around and starts flirting with my friends! And guess what he's finally admitted? He's trying to make me jealous xD No but seriously, I think you should tell him.. Strong feelings, faint feelings.. still feelings right? Go for it, start talking to him again! Idk, do something:P


      TaraWara<3 wrote:

      In my opinion guys are dumb.

      Coreection: "most guys are dumb", not me anyway.

      Well about your guy flirting with your friends it doesn't help me as I am not "dating" him. I admit I am bi-sexual and I do fantisise about him and me doing it, LOL, but I am more attracted to women. But I have strong friendship feelings for him but I don't know does he anymore, I can kind of know he did at one point but I don't know about the present. I feel that he's a part of me and if I don't have these feelings for him I feel that part is missing out of me like a permanent hole that can't be filled. I know that sounds strange coming from a 16 year old guy but that's just how I feel. Eh, yeah I have meant to talk to him about our closeness and I can't wait until I do. I have no problem talking to him. You were making it sound like I don't talk to him anymore but I still do. We've not had a fight and fell out and as a matter of fact we never have had one. (Thank God).

      Thank you for your opinion TaraWara. :).
      Anybody else?
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      It's ok if you're bisexual. But if you have feelings for him and he doesn't... That's quite bad (speaking of experience).He could get offended. Now if you're making it kind of obvious and he's straight, it could explain it all. Although you didn't mention that the problem was coming from him (I mean, that he was more distant and all).
      Anyway, I don't really know. Just try to talk to him a bit more and create new bonds. As you wish. It's not much help but that's all anyone could advice in that situation I think...
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      TinyChatGuyManDude wrote:

      Nigga, you gay.

      Not really. :).

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      Fucklife wrote:

      It's ok if you're bisexual. But if you have feelings for him and he doesn't... That's quite bad (speaking of experience).He could get offended. Now if you're making it kind of obvious and he's straight, it could explain it all. Although you didn't mention that the problem was coming from him (I mean, that he was more distant and all).
      Anyway, I don't really know. Just try to talk to him a bit more and create new bonds. As you wish. It's not much help but that's all anyone could advice in that situation I think...

      I do make it obvious and he's a little curious too about lets say 'experimenting' but that's a different thing altogether that I'll try at a later time with him. I have no problem with him what so ever, I feel that we are best friends, there is just something inside me making me feel that I am not the full 100% with him only 95%. I naturally feel 100% friends with him but I can't get it to click in if you know what I mean.
      Anybody else?
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      Fucklife wrote:

      You know, if you're attracted by him it can change your whole relationship. If it's that, don't worry. Thing will go all right for you.

      Thanks very much. Not ready to take the 'relationship' further. I wouldn't call it a relationship, more like a bromance. Still feeling -5% though.
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      Fucklife wrote:

      Now i just have a question for you. Is that boy you're talking about here the 13 years-old one you want to sleep with? Or is that just another friend? Cause if you're fantasizing about more than only one person...

      Yes it's the 13 year old but I don't want to sleep with him, I only want to experiment and I do fantisise about other guys my age.
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      Fucklife wrote:

      Ok you should've told it before!!! I've been giving you some advice about him too, and if you're talking bout the same person then everything comes clear! You should get going ;)

      Yes I guess I should but how can I when I don't feel the same about him. I do inside feel like this about him but I can't express it. I am thinking this is a phase I am going through.
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      Yeah... maybe, you know we can't really know what exactly you're feeling. But i quite understood in the other post that you wanted to "experiment with him". it's up to you. But i think that's what makes you feel that way.
      I don't know if you have feelings or not. But generally, when you have feelings for a close friend, first you love her/him and then you feel more distant to her/him but still you wanna be with her/him.
      Kinda felt that way this summer in fact. Long story...
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      Fucklife wrote:

      Yeah... maybe, you know we can't really know what exactly you're feeling. But i quite understood in the other post that you wanted to "experiment with him". it's up to you. But i think that's what makes you feel that way.
      I don't know if you have feelings or not. But generally, when you have feelings for a close friend, first you love her/him and then you feel more distant to her/him but still you wanna be with her/him.
      Kinda felt that way this summer in fact. Long story...

      Yeah, at first I had very strong feelings for him, then I didn't over the last 2 weeks, now they are starting to come back. :). Thanks. :D.
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      colemann wrote:

      Your feeling is so right; if you love someone seriously, you feel that you can’t live without him/her and very strange feeling when we see them. Try to know whether your friend likes you or not because we can’t force anyone to be with us because we like the.

      Yeah, I should really ask him how do you see our friendship. Thanks. :).
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