I lack confidence...

    • I lack confidence...

      So, recently I had made plans with a great girl (imo of course). Today we were talking during our free class, and afterwards, I just felt like she could do way better than me. I was so excited for our date on Saturday, but now I've just been feeling gloomy and undeserving.

      Any advice?
      Life is a drum set. Rock it.
    • Re: I lack confidence...

      CanadaTacos wrote:

      So, recently I had made plans with a great girl (imo of course). Today we were talking during our free class, and afterwards, I just felt like she could do way better than me. I was so excited for our date on Saturday, but now I've just been feeling gloomy and undeserving.

      Any advice?

      I know how you feel. I'd suggest you go out on Saturday with her even if you still feel the same on Friday. If you feel the same after the date then make your decision from there. :D.
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    • Re: I lack confidence...

      Illuminate wrote:

      The fact that she's willing to go with you already shows that she has interest. If you really aren't good for her then why is she choosing you? Girls do not view attraction the same way men do. They take everything into account not just looks like men do.


      Sexist comment is sexist.

      Looks are below personality, things in common etc on my list.
    • Re: I lack confidence...

      Fake it until you make it. Pretend you are confident long enough and you just might start to feel it.

      Also, you got the date. Seriously dude, enjoy that feel. Don't cloud it with unnecessary bullshit self-deprecating thoughts just for the hell of it, no offense.
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