Welp

    • Refraze wrote:

      Are you in school? That's a good place.
      Hobbies, if you find one is a good way.
      Going to the gym.
      Parties.
      Through mutual friends.
      If of age, clubs/bars.


      Why would I go to parties or clubs/bars to find women that want a substantial relationship?

      I don't have many friends, and the ones I do don't believe in trying to pair friends together.

      I don't like gyms, so yeh
    • I think going to parties, bars, or club will not land you a honest longlasting girlfriend. I think right now you should live life and see where it take you. Your young and to bring drama and stuff like that back in is not good. I mean you can look on the side but keep your options open.
      [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
      How far do you want me to suppress myself so that you'll be satisfied?

    • can anyone explain the point of being a nice guy when all you ever get is the cold shoulder?

      It's not like i'm the 'too nice' nice guy putting them on a pedestal or anything. They just seem to completely disregard anyone who doesn't lie, cheat, abuse, or talk down on them.

      Is it much to ask for women to tell us guys what they want, not what they think they want but in reality it's the fucking opposite? I mean honestly.
      "Wah my bf abuses me"

      then why the fuck are you with him
      Not like there isn't 5 guys with their hearts set on you, waiting and imagining the moments of valentine, christmas and seeing your smile in their mind. Yet all they get to do is watch you be sad and cry all the time

      christ
    • Shortages wrote:

      Here's all the 'nice guys finish last' bullshit.

      Sitting on a forum wallowing in self-pity isn't going to get you anywhere.


      lol okay, and me trying every day has nothing to do with me 'sitting on a forum (is that even possible? Last I checked a forum was a webpage, which is 1's and 0's which ends up being just a hard disc that is displaying information on the world wide web)

      Anyways. With all of the presumptions aside, try again. Thanks.
    • Oh, and he's a wannabe smartass too. Nice try, dude.

      Of course you try every day... How can you be trying if you didn't know where to start and had to come here to people for where you should be looking?

      Oh, and being a wannabe smartass will get you even lower than friendzoned, sweetie. <3
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    • inb4 she points out i'm responding instead of trying.

      Well guess what? Don't expect the same thing to give you different results. Only a crazy person expects that. If something doesn't work naturally i'm going to find other ways of being successful.

      Sorry if i'm trying to be a better person. God fucking forbid that, cause you've never had to do it before apparently.

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      gotta love when you don't have to respond to their comment...nuff said.

      "Lol he's trying to improve himself, look at him everyone!! hahahahahaha"

      That's what i'm getting from you. Thanks for the contribution.

      I wouldn't be so miserable if y'know, someone gave me a chance for once in life.
    • I don't think you're trying to improve yourself at all.

      You're almost drowning in all of your self-pity. That is what I'm pointing out. No girl wants that.
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    • Shortages wrote:

      I don't think you're trying to improve yourself at all.

      You're almost drowning in all of your self-pity. That is what I'm pointing out. No girl wants that.


      Then how the fuck do I get out of it.

      Seriously. Nothing to live for, not like therapy is going to change anything other than someone's wallet.

      There is nothing to enjoy, nothing to change and it doesn't matter if I change because it's the same thing all over
    • A start would be to stop feeling sorry for yourself and being miserable. Do you really think anyone will see a worthy and happy relationship with someone with your mindset?

      You clearly want to improve yourself, so do it. If something is making you feel like you have nothing to live for, get rid of it. Or better yet, make something to live for.

      Anyone who has given you the advice you have asked for on where to go to look for women, you have turned down. Even if you did find someone worthy of your needs from a relationship, who says they'd want to if you're too busy caring about your own downfalls?

      Every cloud has a silver lining, find yours and focus on it.
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    • Shortages wrote:

      A start would be to stop feeling sorry for yourself and being miserable. Do you really think anyone will see a worthy and happy relationship with someone with your mindset?

      You clearly want to improve yourself, so do it. If something is making you feel like you have nothing to live for, get rid of it. Or better yet, make something to live for.

      Anyone who has given you the advice you have asked for on where to go to look for women, you have turned down. Even if you did find someone worthy of your needs from a relationship, who says they'd want to if you're too busy caring about your own downfalls?

      Every cloud has a silver lining, find yours and focus on it.


      20 years and no silver lining?

      Lol okay then.
      Not like i'll ever find it unless you expect me to dump everything i've done and seen in life and just do literally nothing. Because I don't enjoy anything.
    • Instead of regressing, why not try to progress and look forward.
      Try finding something you enjoy, which I'm sure you already know things you enjoy but are too busy feeling sorry for yourself.

      Instead of trying to convince others how doom and gloom your life is, why not try to show your actual personality, your good side?

      But you're not going to listen to any advice, so you just sit there and keep feeling sorry for yourself. I'm sure you'll get everything you want by doing that.
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    • To elaborate. I dislike animals in general.
      I dislike the things I do do, because all it's doing is being filler to waste time so I don't have to dwell on my pitiful life (i.e. gaming)

      I dislike my own family, because I was born into it. I had no choice in the matter, yet I feel obligated to keep alive just because of the fact i'd make them feel like they did something wrong/have them dwell on the past. I'd rather have them think that my life is going well and they just don't think of me as much.

      I don't enjoy friendships as they just cause drama.

      I don't like hobbies because if I can never be competent at it why bother? (I do shit with computers, but I am way below what I consider anything good at it. Yet people think I can fix their shit which I can, but that's because everyone else who does it as a job don't put in anywhere near as much time as I do.)

      Jobs are all the same. Quick and Quality, no empathy. The head office always yelling at your manager to improve the quality or improve the speed. Never any appreciation from customers or your supervisors.

      Life is just shit, any way I look at it.
    • What has animals got to do with anything?
      I'm not going to get into family matters, but just recognise you're lucky to have one at all.
      Not all friendships cause drama, find some real friends rather than dramatic people (which you are showing yourself to be).
      Practise makes perfect.
      You can find friends, even people like family, in some jobs.
      Okay then, you keep thinking that about your life rather than doing anything about it to make it better. You're not the only one with that outlook on life, but at least others are trying to make it better for themselves.

      I give up attempting to convince you, so as I said before - you just continue to wallow. Let me know how that works out for you.
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    • Shortages wrote:

      What has animals got to do with anything?
      I'm not going to get into family matters, but just recognise you're lucky to have one at all.
      Not all friendships cause drama, find some real friends rather than dramatic people (which you are showing yourself to be).
      Practise makes perfect.
      You can find friends, even people like family, in some jobs.
      Okay then, you keep thinking that about your life rather than doing anything about it to make it better. You're not the only one with that outlook on life, but at least others are trying to make it better for themselves.

      I give up attempting to convince you, so as I said before - you just continue to wallow. Let me know how that works out for you.


      K then. cool story. Not like I expected any help from someone on the forum anyways. That's what everyone says.

      "Lol don't want to help yourself then don't"

      Well i'm tired of feeling this way but i've tried anything and everything and nothing's worked.

      So take your statement and shove it up your ass, because i've tried a lot more than most of the selfish fucks in this world