There's this guy I have really liked for about a year and a half now. I recently texted him and told him I liked him about a month and a half ago. We are good friends. We started skyping almost every night now for about a month now. He asked me to homecoming 2 weeks ago. We went and it was a lot of fun. My friends made him slow dance with me but, I don't think he cared for it. Im so confused as to what we are. We aren't dating, but I really want too. I kind of feel like im being led on, yet going nowhere. Whenever I or my friends bring up the subject that I like him, he quickly changes it.
So confused.
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My suggestion is that you either move on or have a deep, in person conversation with him about how you feel. If he continues to change the subject, move on. There's no point in giving your feelings to someone who has no plan in returning them back. Maybe once he sees that you're no longer infatuated with him, he'll see what he's missing.
“We've all got both light and dark inside us. What matters is the part we choose to act on. That's who we really are.”
-J.K. Rowling -
xXMaggieXx wrote:
I have been told that, its just so hard to move on.
Then distract yourself. Find a new boy to hang out with, hang out with your girlfriends, take up a hobby, a sport, exercise, volunteer. You'll realize in reality, he's probably really not that important. Either move on, or continue basically getting denied.
“We've all got both light and dark inside us. What matters is the part we choose to act on. That's who we really are.”
-J.K. Rowling -
Hi
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Message if u want to
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Rejection always hurts. At least you'll still have him as a friend! I'd suggest doing your best to move on, but there's always the off chance that your relationship will grow and morph into what it currently is not. Maybe he's just not ready for a relationship, period & that's whats holding him back.
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I know you really liked this guy, but was it just a 'like' Or a 'love' thing? You can only answer these questions. If he was leading you on, its better off to just move on, I know it will be hard but you will find someone better. xox[SIGPIC]http://i45.tinypic.com/27yvmzn.jpg[/SIGPIC][SIZE="4"][COLOR="Sienna"]You can't accept it, until you learn it.[/COLOR][/SIZE]
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Normal girls dont get rejected. Normal girls don't take initatives, they are passive.
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juicemoisture wrote:
Normal girls dont get rejected. Normal girls don't take initatives, they are passive.
I find this rude. Are you saying im not normal because I bothered to do something? Welcome to the 21st century where people do get rejected. Girls do take charge. Its not the guys job to do everything.
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