Scareddd

    • my girlfriend is going to uni in september and i am scared that i am going to lose her, i get so insecure about things and start overthinking, i know it is going to ruin my relationship. The thing is im her first love, i just get scared that she will want something different, forget about me and i dont want that to happen, i don't know how to control the way i feel. It is actually killing me inside. I love my girlfriend so much
    • Re: Scareddd

      Sooner or later you'll need to find the strength within you to stand on your own. Your girlfriend isn't abandoning you, and you're not abandoning her. But you need to let her go and do her own thing even while you love her and miss her, because otherwise neither of you will grow.

      You might want to look into tai chi, qigong, and other forms of meditation or prayer. It sounds like you're going through a tough time right now, and sometimes that sort of thing can help.