If you want to get girls or guys to like you, you have to like yourself first and have some self-confidence. No person will want to date you or get with you if you can't even love yourself. Instead of complaining about how bad you are, talk about some good things about yourself.

Another thing you should do is face your fears. Everyone has fears of doing something. Trying to get rid of it or hiding from it won't help, so instead you have to face it. You'll end up happier if you do it.