Help!!I'M IN LOVE W/ SOMEONE I'M NOT SUPPOSE TO!!

    • Help!!I'M IN LOVE W/ SOMEONE I'M NOT SUPPOSE TO!!

      ok soo, a few months back, my dad told us that he already has found someone, and asked me and my sis if we were ok with it and we were. after mom died, w/c was 3 years ago our family has been down and depressed, specially dad, we used to be happy, active at family gatherings and activities but the past 3 years has been difficult for us but now we're slowly moving on...
      so...., dad introduced us to the lady, she was nice, and my dad seems to be happy with her. we met her family, her 2 sons and her daughter. we clicked and the five of us got together pretty well. we hung out the following days and we got really tight, and that's when i started having feelings with the daughter who is 2 yrs older than me. she is so simple and she's so beautiful, not supermodel, pornstar beutiful, her beauty is so simple. she doest wear make up, her hair is so nice and neat and it smells of strawberries.... and most of all she's very nice, and smart, she's so timid, but knows how to get along with others. and everytime she talks / every time i hear her voice i can feel my heart raise. she's just so amazing... but i dont want anything to happen btw us coz my dad is going to marry her mom. and i dont want to do a one time on her. if i ever date or love a girl, i want it to last and i know this is not gonna happen btw us. i dont even know if she likes me back, but i dont wanna know. i think its better that way.. but i'm GOING CRAZY here! i just cant get over it. i really just dont know what to do. i need help i feel like i'm gonna throwing up..

    • Re: Help!!I'M IN LOVE W/ SOMEONE I'M NOT SUPPOSE TO!!

      There's nobody you're "not supposed to" be in love with. Our body makes it so we're attracted to the scents of people we aren't related to avoid incest, so other than that, you're good. You can't help what you feel for this girl, but it's more of a matter of who got there first. If you met this girl before your father met her mother, the reluctance would probably be on his part.. But ultimately, he's probably just looking for happiness again and if he finds it in her, be careful when it comes to this girl. If she's going to become your step-sister, you're going to be around her a lot. If you can't control your feelings for her by then, it could become a bad situation for not only you two, but your parents too. Just my opinion.
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      Best Friend wrote:

      How often do you hang around with other girls?


      i have a couple of female friends, we hang out all the time, most of them are typical party girls, i dated one but it didnt work out. my soon to be step sister on the other hand is somewhat different from them and that's what i like about her.


      kinkedkitty wrote:

      There's nobody you're "not supposed to" be in love with. Our body makes it so we're attracted to the scents of people we aren't related to avoid incest, so other than that, you're good. You can't help what you feel for this girl, but it's more of a matter of who got there first. If you met this girl before your father met her mother, the reluctance would probably be on his part.. But ultimately, he's probably just looking for happiness again and if he finds it in her, be careful when it comes to this girl. If she's going to become your step-sister, you're going to be around her a lot. If you can't control your feelings for her by then, it could become a bad situation for not only you two, but your parents too. Just my opinion.


      that's what i'm fearing. if my dad ever married this lady, w/c i know will one day happen, i think i'm gonna break. ryt now i'm just holding my feelings, hoping that one day it will pass but she just makes it really hard for me to let it go. we see each other everyday, we hang out, she would tell amazing stuffs and we would joke around and she would laugh...and if i'm not w/ her i find myself thinking about her. she's just so...aaah!..

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      I'd talk to your dad about it if you can. Becoming step-siblings when you feel the way you do about her would be very awkward and difficult. I hope it all works out for the best for your whole family. :)
      "I think you call me 'Sexy'." "Only when we're alone!" "We are alone." "Come on then, Sexy."
      ~I am the Doctor's Sexy

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      Forming anything other than a sister-brother relationship would be really unorthodox. All you need to do is start seeing other girls. I'm certain you'll find someone better than her and soon your attraction to her will fade. It's very important you find someone else to move your interest to, because it'll be really goody if you slip up and I dunno, kiss your sister (step, soon-to-be- step, doesn't matter cuz everyone will still think you're related). Make the effort to find another girl