This girl started talking to me a few weeks back and what not. She said she likes me but doesn't want to jump into anything and isn't ready for any sort of relationship. We've hung out more then a few days now and i always pay for everything. They aren't dates and i haven't asked her out yet, but I'm probably going to since we know quite a bit about each other. Is it right of me to pay if we're just hanging out? I'm not very experienced so I'm not sure what is appropriate to do and what is it. We both know we like each other and we get along pretty good. Like i said, she said she doesn't want to jump into anything because we've only hung out a few times. I'm going to hang out with her again and then ask her if she wants to go out with me. I shouldn't be kissing her and all that while we hang out right? lol.
Hanging out with a girl... should i pay?
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She should pay, women want equality, don't be sexist and pay for everything...
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You don't have to pay for her. I never pay for my date. Even if I really like the girl. Or I do pay but expect that she will pay the next time we go out. Equality. If she refuses to pay or expectes you to do it than you will know a little about what kind of person she is. As for the kissing part. If you think she is giving you any signals go for it. The two of you could be having just an informal date.
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IMO, a man should pay for a women no matter what usually, but she isn't your girlfriend. So she should pay for herself, or else she will be use to you paying for her... Bad sign
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Mase wrote:
IMO, a man should pay for a women no matter what usually, but she isn't your girlfriend. So she should pay for herself, or else she will be use to you paying for her... Bad sign
Are you being sexist?
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One Love wrote:
looool i dont know what all of you have been smoking, but a boy ALWAYS pay for the girl. always and just how it is.. its always been so and will always be so, so youll have to pay up to get dat punani
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Nope.
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Don't really think you should pay if you're just hanging out, although, you might as well offer to.
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You aren't dating, don't pay. Tell her you'd like to take her out on a date the next time you both are free, then you may pay. If she doesn't want to date, then don't pay and move on. She says she doesn't want a relationship because she's naive and inexperienced. Be persistent and show her you can handle it.
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Where do you live? When you are in ASEAN countries, almost men have to pay the whole thing in every dates. :confused:
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Don't pay for her...even if you were dating, I would never expect a guy to always pay for me.
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Well I don't think that you necessarily should pay for her, but all guys I go out with (either on a date or just friendly hanging out) pay for me, and never ever let me pay.[CENTER][SIZE=1]He holds me in his big arms
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OMG!! First of all that's not sexiest. What I would do is go to the park or something like that. You don't have to pay for hanging out or if it really is a date. Also if you do want to go some where you have to pay then split the money in half. You pay and she pays.
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I don't think you should be paying for everything, especially since she said she didn't want to jump into anything. It would probably make the most sense if you just like, split the check.
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what pink said, make that gurl work for her own things. she is just using you if she doesnt want to go any further
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The fuck was I saying??Pink_ wrote:
I don't think you should be paying for everything, especially since she said she didn't want to jump into anything. It would probably make the most sense if you just like, split the check.
Men should always pay every time. Except maybe their birthdays. I remember a few months before my ex's birthday he was talking about how he was excited to finally have a gf on his bday and that it would be cool for me to pay for once lol. We broke up 2 1/2 months before his birthday. Oh well.
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Pink_ wrote:
We broke up 2 1/2 months before his birthday. Oh well.
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lmao it was well overdue even then
lliam wrote:
good timingPink_ wrote:
We broke up 2 1/2 months before his birthday. Oh well.
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ah, I forgot to post, TT_
Even this thread is very old, I wanted to post, that m y GF and I agreed to this:
Who ever invites the other to a date ... pays.
Mysteriously I'm the one who mostly pays, even I'm sure, I haven't asked her out, but she asked me. -
She's dumb for agreeing to that. Is she a feminist or something
lliam wrote:
ah, I forgot to post, TT_
Even this thread is very old, I wanted to post, that m y GF and I agreed to this:
Who ever invites the other to a date ... pays.
Mysteriously I'm the one who mostly pays, even I'm sure, I haven't asked her out, but she asked me.
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